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Sorry, this may be a bit long but I would REALLY appreciate someone's help. Preferrably a girl who has/had the same problem and found an effective way to deal with it, or a guy who is like my boyfriend.
Alright, so my boyfriend, let's call him Larry.
Well, me and larry have been together for about 8 months and he is seriously my first love. I haven't had very many boyfriends and if I have, they never lasted long at ALL. The most was like, 2 and a half months.
Me and Larry started out as best friends and it kinda naturally escalated into something more. So I figured it was fate? But now, I don't know. I love him with ALL of my heart. He's the only boy I ever want to be with, honestly. I'm 17, he's 18.
I lost my virginity to him about 6 months ago and ever since then, it seems like he changed. I don't think it's necessarily that "that's all he wanted from me" because I know most guys are like that, but honestly, I don't think that's it. I think it's more of a comfort issue. He stopped doing all the things he used to do to make me happy and now, it seems like I'm ALWAYS mad at him and arguing with him or I'm crying. And sometimes, it's over things that aren't even a big deal. I just don't know. I have so much anger because I want him to change back to the way he was when he was trying to impress me and I rlly liked him then. I still like him. I feel stronger about him than ever. I just want things to go back to how they used to be. Like, I know he won't be hesitant to kiss me like he used to be cause we're naturally past that in our relationship but even little stuff like writing me random text messages letting me know how important I am to him or kissing me like he used to. Everytime we kiss, he kisses me like one kisses their GRANDMA. It's quick and short. But 8 months ago, I got butterflies in my stomach and I felt like I was in a movie! It was great.
I just need to know what to do. I feel like he knows I won't ever break up with him. Like he HAS me and I'll never leave because everytime I say I'm gonna break up with him, I chicken out. I rlly don't want to. I just wanna teach him a lesson and make him want to change back. He says he's trying but I don't know if he rlly is. Oh, and I have a jealousy problem. Considering he was MY first but I was his 15th. It hurts me when he talks to those girls, and for the most part he doesn't but when he does, I get really upset and start bawling my eyes out. Even if nothing is going on. UGH. Please help me somebody. Thank you so much if you actually read through this whole thing. I appreciate your time and if you make an effort to answer all my questions, I'd be greatly appreciative.
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well, im only 13, but ya that is really sad, for you being his 15th gf!!!! i mean, for me im dating my 5th ex bf right now and im in a bit of a crisis too...
i think i know how you feel, but i never had sex yet...
i don't get it. y do plp hav sex at such a young age???
anyways, my bf won't kiss me but im his, well, 2nd gf kuz b4 i broke up with him i wuz his first so...
ya, hope this helps...
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