well my name is Daron Bates! i am from San Diego California and i moved to Katy Texas. i have 1 brother who is 16 and two loving caring parents! (however they are divorced!). But enough about me this column is about you and what you need!
one extra thing, dont ask me stupid questions that you made up and isnt really something you need for advice! thank you!
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yeah soo i have this problem and its that i really like this guy but hes moved on and i need to figure out how to do the same thing...but im afraid as soon as i do that he'll like me again, i mean theres alot of other guys i could easily like and go out with but i just dont know..if you could help that would be great
love,confused (link)
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I know that it can be a hard thing to lose someone you have loved or even liked to the extent of you would give anything for them. I have had this problem myself. To move on it takes a great deal of time. no matter how much you can try to convince yourself that your over them. it will take a toll on you. dont be afraid to get into another relationship thinking that he will come back. if he does remember that you have taken the time to get over him and are now in a relationship that you are comfortable in. if you do have another relationship and he decides that he wants you back. then its going to be his lose, because you are better then that to wait around for him. Believe me that is the worst thing to do, is to wait around for him to know if he wants you or not. and if you do, do that he will think that he can do it over and over again. i hope that i have helped you.
your advice girl
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ok, theres this girl who wont show me her boobs, and i always bug her about it, and i really want to see them, cuz their really big, what should i do? (link)
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You shouldnt ever ask to see someones breasts. lol. its there opition. and doesnt mater if you really want to see them or not. and if you really want to see boobs that big look at porn or somthing.
your advice girl.
(kyle thanks for the question!!!)
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Hey,
Okay, well I have never asked you for advice, but my boyfriend and I just broke up, we went out for like 4 weeks, and we were best friends before that, now we dont talk anymore at all. I miss our friendship and I dont know how to get it back, any advice?
Thanks,
Worried I Lost A Friend (link)
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dear worried you lost a friend,
ok there are a couple of things that are important. first off when you guys broke up was it an angry break up, or was it like ok lets stay friends but nothing more? if it was a angry break up then just let him chill out and cool off other wise if you jump in he is more likly to feel uncomfortable and not wanna see you. so just back off if it was a angry break up. however if it was a break up that you both were ok about and you just kinda lost contact. then its ok to aproch him or call him and be like you know we havent talked in a while and see how he is doing... or you know see if he wants to go to the mall or somthing. but dont ever push a guy into anything cause if you do they will get nervous and not want to see you for a while. i hope i have helped you.
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heyy babe i have a probelm thats y am askin u ok well i like this guy and he likes me but theres one probelm he has a gurlfriend whos my best friend and i dont want him to hurt her but i do want to go out with him but i dont want her to be mad at me if me and him go out so i dont noe wht to do
help plz
guy issue gurl (link)
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Dear Guy issue gurl.
You are going through somthing every girl at one point or another goes through. Now you said that this was your best friends boyfriend. right? Remember that guys will come and go till you settle down, but best friends are forever. you dont want to throw your friendship away because of a guy. i did that once... it was the stupidest thing i have ever done. even though you may think that your in love with him you need to remember that no matter how much you like him you dont want to hurt your best friend. and if they do break up, you need to talk to your friend before you make the move. however this is your choice if you want to jeperdise your relationship with your BEST friend for a guy who will most likely be gone in a couple of weeks. i hope that i have helped you with your problem. and i hope that you make the choice that you KNOW is right.
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dear wonderful advice girl,
i like someone. but he likes girls who lets say go far, and i dont know if i want to go that far. should i? you know so much stuff. and i look up to you in all. thank you for your help. your so great to talk to . and so easy to.
signed,
one tough cookie (link)
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dear one tough cookie,
never change yourself for a guy. If you cant be yourself infront of him why would you want to be someone different because then he doesnt like you for you!If a guy only goes out with girls who go far than he is just a pig and you can get over him because you never want to bring down your reputation for a stupid guy. Im glad that you like my advice. I hope i have helped you.
signed,
Your Advice Girl (a.K.a Daron)
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Dear Darron u might no but im not sure theres this really hott girl that really wants to have sex i dont kno if im ready for that move if u could help me that would be great. (link)
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well... everybody is different in what they do and what i mean is there standerds, what they consider exceptible in there books. im not going to say dont do it but im not going to say go do it. there are many things you MUST think about first including aids,std's, and even teen pregnancy. this is a very touchy manner and i really think it is your say but if it were me i would deffinitly check in to all the possibilities of haveing sex. of course it seems like this is the thing to do but you might regret it when you are older. just think about it before you go head and do it. but remember it is you choice.
luv alwayz,
your advice girl (daron)
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Hi,I have a problem..I kinda have to groups of friends one group that is the really "popular" group and the others that r popular but not as popular as them...I feel like both sides r making me choose who i want too be my friend and i like all of them they r all so nice!! Ugh what do i do?
SexyandHott23 (link)
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dear sexyandhott23,
you have a problem that many teenagers face! whether or not to hang out with the popular people or the not as popular people. now im not sure in your situation but in most people usually choose the popular people because it is the cool thing to do but you need to remember being popular is not the only thing that you need to be focused on! And never forget that the less popular people will always be by your side no matter what, and if both sides are trying to get you to pick than those aren't very good friends because if you're a true friend than they wouldn't care who your friends are! and if they are making you choose sides then that means that they're threatened by your other friends!
love always,
your advice girl (a.k.a daron)
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i dont know what 2 do this guy wants to like do stuff with me( reall stuff !) but he has a girl friend who is my best friend! i dont know what to do because i like him alot! he just says i can't tell. but i dont know
hoping to get your advice back
issues (link)
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Dear issues,
first off you could never do that to your best friend! second of all if he is doing that behind your friends back and then asks you to keep it a secret than how do you know he wont do it to you! boy that is one way to ruin a friendship, and you dont want to do that over a guy (trust me its stupid)(i know from experience). well ultimately its your choice, and i hope that you will think it through VERY carefully and decide what is the best decision for you right now. but keep in mind that if you do go behind your friends back and she finds out and you arnt friends anymore and you and this "boyfriend" are over youll be the there with both no boyfriend nor a best friend!
luv alwayz,
YOUR ADVICE GIRL (a.k.a daron)
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i have a problem that is interfearing in my life and that problem is my boy friend is to clingy to me and i dont want to hurt his feelings but i want him to back off!
what do i do?
puzzled (link)
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Dear Puzzled,
well in my personal oppinion just ask him nicely that you want to go out or do what you want to do with your friends without the constant need of someone watching you. but if this guy is so clingy that even that is to much to ask he should be history. but next time try to be alittle more careful how you pick your boy friends!
Advice Girl (a.k.a Daron)
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