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Member Since: June 28, 2009
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i heard that cervical cancer vaccination, is only needed once your daughter is sexually active.

is that true ?
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I'm 16 and im NOT sexually active. But, i've had all 3 shots for the HPV cancer. They are offering to girls as little as 12 years old. They want girls to try and get the shot before they have sex, so that if the girl is exposed to the virus when they become sexually active, the body can reconize it, and get rid of it before it causes cervical cancer. So if i were you, get your daughter the shot, regardless of if she is sexually active or not, its better to safe than sorry.

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My boyfriend and I always use protection unless I'm on my period. Is it possible for me to get pregnant if I keep doing this? (link)
yes, anytime you have sex you run the risk of getting pregnant. If you dont want to have a baby, use protection ANYTHIME you have sex, because period or not, its possible.
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i'm 18/female. my boyfriend and i have been together for 5 amazing months. we've been best friends for several years and our relationship is awesome. it was an instant connection. we've even considered getting married in a few years because our connection was just amazing and our love goes really deep. we're both strong Christians and very open with each other. he'd told me when we first started dating that he'd struggled with porn. last night he told me that it had been gay porn and he still struggles with it. he said he thinks he might be attracted to guys and girls. he says he is still completely in love with me but wanted to be honest and didn't want this to break us up. i agreed to stay with him and try to help him though this. it's killing me though. i don't want to break up with him at all, but i have no idea what to do. i can't tell anybody because i'm the only one who knows so i'm doing this anonymously. my whole body is in physical pain struggling with this. i can't think straight. i need help. any advice from anybody out there would be great. tell me the truth please. that's what i want. please i'm begging. i don't know what to do or say. i want to "change" him, but i know i can't. it's his struggle but now i'm trying to help and i have no idea what to do. i don't want to turn him away anymore. i need him and he needs me. but i don't want to be used as a cover because he doesn't want anybody else to know. please help me. thank you. (link)
This seems pretty complicated. Even though i have never had this type of thing happen this is what i would do. What you said was that you still wanted to stay together, and you know that you cant change him. If he says he wants to stay with you than keep at it! This type of thing happens to many many people and its okay to be bisexual. Just make sure to tell him that your okay with it and still want to stay together, but also tell him that you dont want him to stay with you because he doesn't want anyone else to know. Keep up with how he's feeling and make sure you and him are both on the same level. Just be there for him and make sure he knows that you still love him the same way. But... if you feel like he is just using you as a cover up, and or you feel that him being bisexual is too much for you, tell him and maybe take a break, let him find out what he likes, and who knows, maybe its just a phase. I hope i helped.
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