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I'm dating this guy. He's very sweet, smart, funny, and he notices all the little things about me. I feel like he really cares about me. I can be myself around him and we seem to have a good connection.

However, he's a little too sexual for me. We were laying in the grass for a bit and he put is hand up my shorts. I said no and pushed him away. He kept trying and I kept pushing him and threatened to get up and leave if he did so. So he kept his hand on my leg and calmed down a bit, but later he did it again. I kept saying no. And I got up and we talked about it and he said he'd stop and go as far as I wanted. But really, I want to wait. I know he likes doing dirty things, but I want to wait and see where we go in our relationship. I get the feeling he wants me for sex. I mean, we barely talk about sex, but still. He's very perverted and can't keep his hands off of me. I don't want our relationship to revolve around sex.

And something else: we've only been dating for a week or so, and he's already saying he loves me.

I still really like him but I don't know what else to do if he keeps being all over me like this. I want to stay with him. So how do I firmly tell him I don't want sex right now? (link)
He is always going to be "preverted" and its not wise or your job to change someone. If you aren't happy with him exactly as he is, leave. Sex is a very big issue and you both need to be on the same page about it. Its better for both of you to cut your losses.


I know xoxo stands for hugs and kisses and ive heard the o is for hugs and the x is for kissez but why?
i always thought the X was for hugs because when you hug your arms make an X and wehn you kiss your lips make an O shape
but sum1 told me im way off (link)
Well you do have it backwards. X = kisses this is because you connect at the lips like the center of the x. The O = hugs this is because you encircle someone when you put your arms around them. XOXO was most commonly used at the bottom of letters to show a friendly and familar sign of affection. You shouldn't really be kissing your mom with a circle kind of open mouth kiss! lol




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