Member Since: April 8, 2011 Answers: 2 Last Update: April 8, 2011 Visitors: 1116
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I'm dating this guy. He's very sweet, smart, funny, and he notices all the little things about me. I feel like he really cares about me. I can be myself around him and we seem to have a good connection.
However, he's a little too sexual for me. We were laying in the grass for a bit and he put is hand up my shorts. I said no and pushed him away. He kept trying and I kept pushing him and threatened to get up and leave if he did so. So he kept his hand on my leg and calmed down a bit, but later he did it again. I kept saying no. And I got up and we talked about it and he said he'd stop and go as far as I wanted. But really, I want to wait. I know he likes doing dirty things, but I want to wait and see where we go in our relationship. I get the feeling he wants me for sex. I mean, we barely talk about sex, but still. He's very perverted and can't keep his hands off of me. I don't want our relationship to revolve around sex.
And something else: we've only been dating for a week or so, and he's already saying he loves me.
I still really like him but I don't know what else to do if he keeps being all over me like this. I want to stay with him. So how do I firmly tell him I don't want sex right now? (link)
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He is always going to be "preverted" and its not wise or your job to change someone. If you aren't happy with him exactly as he is, leave. Sex is a very big issue and you both need to be on the same page about it. Its better for both of you to cut your losses.
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I know xoxo stands for hugs and kisses and ive heard the o is for hugs and the x is for kissez but why?
i always thought the X was for hugs because when you hug your arms make an X and wehn you kiss your lips make an O shape
but sum1 told me im way off (link)
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Well you do have it backwards. X = kisses this is because you connect at the lips like the center of the x. The O = hugs this is because you encircle someone when you put your arms around them. XOXO was most commonly used at the bottom of letters to show a friendly and familar sign of affection. You shouldn't really be kissing your mom with a circle kind of open mouth kiss! lol
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