Member Since: March 4, 2013
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(I am fifteen, girl, sophomore. He is seventeen, boy, junior). So me and my ex have been broken up for about nine ish months? We dated for eight and had a reeeeally messy break up. While we were dating he, yes, had me pretty whipped. It's something I'm really not proud of. But he took advantage of that in a lot of ways and really hurt me... To sum it up he pressured/guilted me into physcial stuff, dumped me in a text, and told me he only stayed with me for so long cause he liked hooking up and he never actually liked me. Yet yeah, he had me whipped cause he reallly had me fooled that he loved me. He would actually force me to look him in the eye while he said he loved me... Didn't really think someone could lie to my face like that but ugh that's another story. Point is, I found out after we broke up that'd he'd talk a bunch of shit to his friends/baseball team. Just really disrespectful stuff you shouldn't be saying about your girlfriend. Anyway. Even though we’ve been broken up he will still mess with me. I’m pretty sure he gets enjoyment out of it. He'll just rip on me cause he knows I used to take it and he thinks I still will. Which okay... truth time: I'm not a very assertive person, he knows that, I don't know I'm just... a doormat. Or I used to be. For example, last week:
Him: Put some clothes on you look like a whore.
Me: You’re a dick.
Him: You love my dick.
Me: (quietly) Stop.
Him: Make me.
Me: Come on.
Him: You know what?
Him: I think I still have you whipped. I’m pretty sure I could get you do anything.
Me: You’re an idiot.
Him: If I dropped my pants right now would you suck me off?
Me: (attempted to push him away, he stopped me)
Him: I’m not gonna lie sweetie, you’re a tiny little thing. That’s probably not a good idea.
Me: Just let me go.
Him: I can’t take you seriously. You’re just so cute when you’re mad.
This is where he tries to pinch my cheek and I smack his hand away but he grabbed my wrist and pulled me up to him.
Me: Let go.
Him: (Laughing)
Me: Seriously, stop.
Him: Okay, okay. But remember, as much as you deny it you know you’re still mine.
UHM CREEPY?? Like I don’t even know what that means and I’m just so pissed off at him right now, like I honestly don’t even know what to do!! He’s basically dating this other girl so what the heck does he think he’s doing…? I want to talk to him but every time we talk he just has this way where as you can see from above, I can never find it in me to just REALLY tell him off. Sometimes I think he’s right. He gives me all this shit and I can never just yell at him. And it really takes a toll on me… I don’t want to talk to the school and I don’t want to get anyone else involved because I feel like I’m never gonna solve this problem until I can handle him myself. I need to do this for me. That last line has been in my head 24/7 for the past few days because I think he’s right. I need to talk to him and tell him I’m not his toy anymore but I’m scared I’m not gonna have the guts. Please help me… Tips, things to say? Anything. (link)
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i had a boyfriend to treated me bad too.... but he did it in a whole different way... basically has he ever made you have sex? is he touching you in ways you cant handle? you do realize you can call the cops on him right? he will either be sent to jail or joovie (probably jail) for his actions and you will get off clean.... then if you ever see him outside of prison then you can scream and cuss at him.... but you also got to get over that being weak crap, like that is bullshit and i know you can do better.... i got bullied for about 3 years in a row and the dove into a bad relationship, i have no problem telling someone to fuck off or cuss them out, i mean, even my mom knows i cuss and she's fine with i because i dog cuss someone if they are a total ass.... it isnt that hard, once you do it you feel better, and you might as well hit him down low too but i really suggest calling the cops during school and tell them the deal, is how i got rid of bullies a few years ago.... and do not be afraid to tell someone... could bite you in the ass for years to come!!!! good luck girl!!!! :)
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