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I am a younger person, my family says i can't date till I'm am 16 (i have a few years to go still), but I have a boyfriend and i love him with all my heart I haven't meet him in real life yet but i know what he looks like. I wouldn't say my family is strict but I'm just worried if i tell them about our relationship they will make us brake up.
Should I tell my family?
(his family knows about us and is happy for him)
I wouldn't like to say my age but I am female. (link)
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You should talk to your family.
For one, you have no one to protect you. For example, if you were dating your boyfriend and you were involved in an incident or accident, your family would not know where you are or if you are safe. Even if your boyfriend tries to help you, there is nothing he can do if he doesn't have your contact information. Right? To avoid such a worst-case scenario, you should talk to him.
Secondly, what is your family worried about? Maybe it's about sex, maybe it's about getting involved in drugs. You may think it's fine, but your family won't know about your boyfriend, will they? You should promise to write that you won't have sexual intercourse with your family, you won't get involved in drugs, you won't do anything that your family is worried about, and so on. No one can stop you from falling in love, but you should stick to the bare minimum. You are still someone to be protected.
Finally, it is what you want to be with your boyfriend. If you break up that you are dating in secret, your family will be angry. But you can reduce that risk by communicating your feelings to your family and having a dialogue with them. It's not just about you and your boyfriend, it could destroy the relationship between you and your family. Be brave and tell them.
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