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Wanting a boyfriend has been occupying my mind all the time and it’s getting annoying now. Ever since I was 15 I’ve always wanted a boyfriend but I never got one only because I was too awkward and shy but the thought of having one didn’t occupy my mind almost every second of the day as it is now. It’s all I can think about, obviously I know I’m lonely and I don’t really have much friends in the first place but as I get older (I’m 19 now) I just want to be in a relationship not just to be in one but to have that campanionship, someone who’s there for you but more than in a friend way but in a romantic way too. I guess if I can’t fight the thoughts I might have to deal with it sooner or later and find a boyfriend but like I said I was shy and awkward but I still am. I’m very picky I don’t want to seem desperate or anything. Any tips on how to find something else to distract me from always thinking about a relationship or tips on how to meet guys my age without being scared to approach them? (link)
Hi, It is quite natural to feel the need to be loved and cared for by the opposite sex in a romantic way. By your age, you are old enough to be in a relationship that shouldn't be sex driven but more of a romantic friendship. To overcome your altitude of been shy and awkward, you can start off on a social media dating site, it has the advantage of staying hidden in your comfort zone and gives you the freedom to exploit your inner self. Don't condone lust, you might feel that it is a way to satisfy the partner you have just met so you don't lose him, He is not the only one out there. Let him go if he wants sex from you, because there is a better guy out there that would adore and embrace you for been a woman of virture. Your search for the right man(mind you, there is nothing like the perfect man) is a normal thing for every woman in our world today


I've recently assumed the duties of a treasurer for a career-related organization. Recently, I received a spoofed email allegedly coming from our organization's president asking me to send money to a vendor. It turns out that this was fraudulent, and unfortunately I transferred the money to a potential scammer. I don't know if I can recover the money or not; there is a strong possibility that I may be unable to do so. The organization is aware of this, and so far, they seem to be okay with it. However, as a result, I believe that my credibility and judgment with this organization are ruined permanently, and I think it would be best to submit my resignation from the treasurer position of this organization. Please let me know what some options are and if resigning is the best course of action that I should take. (link)
Hello, I feel sorry for what just happened to you at your work. You should be aware that this is a common trend by which scammers obtain funds from companies and organizations. My advice is you shouldn't resign due to the following listed reasons below:
1. You resigning could send false misinterpretation of your actions that you were part of the fraudulent act and you want to elope just in case.
2. You might be charged for fraud later on if after you resign and your case file is reviewed.
3. You resign and you indirectly give credit to the scammers for letting them take away your source of livelihood.
From what you have said above, you implied that the organisation is fine with it and they have not taken any actions against you. What I would do in your case is setup ways to track down this fraudster and bring him to justice if atleast the funds cannot be recovered. This form of scam is frequent and has loopholes in nailing the fraudster via withdrawal of the funds from the designated account. There has been numerous cases of such brought to Rehabculture Hack store where the culprit is tracked and his IP address given to the police to make immediate arrest. Don't accept defeat easily, you getting this culprit caught, might not only wipe off your mistake but would earn you an appraisal and maybe a promotion for a good work. Reach out to Customer Service at Rehabculture Hack store for assistance in tracking down this fraudster via rehabculture@protonmail.com. I would be very glad that you are free of self guilt after those behind such acts are behind bars.


In one of my classes I was given a project to make a modern day adaption of a classic fairy tail, and I'm doing Cinderella. I have many different ideas on how to make it unique from the millions of other adaptions of the story, but there's one thing I want to do that I need some help with.

The story is going to deal with heavy topics, and as with all serious stories, I'm going to need some sort of comic relief. To be clear, Cinderella in this is a foster child who was adopted for the sole purpose of extracting money from the state. Her birth parents are both dead.

The foster parents and the two daughters (meant to be the parallel of the step mother and step sisters, with a father thrown in) are crooked and evil. One of the step sisters is supposed to be more reedemable, while the other one is cruel and unlikeable but severely troubled, making her actions more understandable. I was thinking of making the parents be the most sinister characters but more clownish and ridiculous to be a comic relief (think the Theynadiers in Les Miserables or the Engineer in Miss Saigon.)

I've never really written comic relief characters before with that specific purpose, and usually just left it being dark, but I want to with this story.

How exactly do you make a funny character, especially one like this, without it being painfully obvious or cringey? (link)
Hi, your story plot seems interesting. And your idea of making it into a comic relief, would come out different and fantastic due to the angle by which your audience would view it. I am a graphics Artist/designer, and I have worked on numerous artistic story telling plots similar to yours. I would be glad if given the oppourtunity to work with you on this project of yours, what makes me unique is my character designs are hand drawn before redendering with graphics designing. My fees are affordable and negotiable, reach out to me via robertysmith501@gmail.com so we can begin right away.
Regards.


I've been working for a company since late November. I like the job and my manager, but when it comes to my coworkers I'm having a lot of problems.

When I first started I was trained with somebody else who was really scummy. In short he was breaking every rule you can think of and pretty soon he got fired for it. Well it turned out that he was referred for the job by one of the workers who was already there and he got so mad that they kept me and got rid of his friend that he spread rumors about me and turned everybody against me. I talked to my manager about it (he's a manager from out of state) and he told me to just ignore them and keep my head up so I did.

Then they hired another guy who was relentlessly sexually harassing me and I wound up having to report him because he started stalking me and messaging me online too and then he got fired and people started calling me a snitch.

Now I'm in a volatile work environment where nobody likes me and one of the guys in particular keeps calling me a "dumb white b*tch" among other names and telling everybody horrible things about me. One time he even threatened to pick me up and slam me into the wall and kick my a**.

He also deters as many of my sales as possible which is a big part of my job and I get fired if I can't make any sales.

I don't know what to do. I can't report him too when I already reported the first guy and now everybody says I'm a snitch. Even if I did the other coworkers don't like me either. He's already told me he's going to force me to quit...I don't know what to do. I can't be without a job. :(


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Hi, To be candid, you should take steps against those that are hostile to you which would not be traced back to you. From what you wrote, you are already out of options of reporting the certain individuals that are making your life miserable at work. What if they start doing evil stuffs with your signature on it in order not to just get you fired but arrested and charged for fraud? I remember a person that contacted our store seeking for assistance in getting out of a situation where his co-workers at work had used his signature in withdrawing a huge sum of money from the firm without his consent since he was the Head of the Treasury department at that firm. He almost lost his job, not until we figured out what went wrong and exposed it all so he could be proved innocent. Not everyone is lucky to get help from us at Rehabculture Hack store, but don't sit there and wait for a miracle to happen, which might only get worse. I can be reached on google hangouts via (robertysmith501@gmail). I would be ready to help you without it been traced back to you, courtesy of RCHS.




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