Member Since: July 1, 2006 Answers: 1 Last Update: July 2, 2006 Visitors: 586
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My wife and I have been married for 7 years. When I met her she was very reserved and shy acting. Our sex life was good but she never wanted to deviate from normal foreplay and intercourse. I had told her that I had 5 sexual partners before I met her (including an ex wife). She never said anything about her past other than having sex at 17 and then having not dated for 3 years prior to when I met her. After we were married she told my brother at a party that during 1 year at college she had sex with 27 guys and that she was proud of it as she had used them for sex. When he told me I was shocked. I married a slut as far as I was concerned. She is very religious and plays the good Baptist part well. I have told her that I am having a hard time dealing with the fact that she had so many partners in such a short time, the average total partners for a wome of 39 is 7. She has had sex with over 35 total partners. I told her that I need some details about why she had sex with so many guys and the details of what happened. She says it is none of my business, but I now just think about all of these guys fucking my wife every which way. We have not had sex for 4 months now and it is driving me nuts. I just can't get excited about her. I wonder were these guys great at sex, did they have bigs dicks did she do things with them that she will not do with me.
What should I do? Am I wrong to have an open conversation about the details of her sex capades? She also says she does not remember any details, yeah right?
She seems happy to not have sex now. Now that she does not have to work and I earn over $300,000 a year. I ask her how she could fuck all those guys who gave her nothing and not me the guy who has given her everything?
Please help.
Jimbojoe (link)
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It really doesn't matter how many partners she had. The fact that she was deliberately witholding this information is the important part.
None of your business? I would expect that if she had told you this before you married, it may have changed your mind. I would consider such information pertinent.
Then, she brags of it to your brother. Very nice.
And, yes, she is a slut. I have had many partners (I am male and they have all been female), and I admit that makes me a (male) slut. At least I admit to it.
Not that you would take my advice, or that any others on this list would tell you to, but I say ditch the bitch. There are too many of us on this planet that live with the pain of hating the person we married, and not wanting to hurt anyone, we stick it out and stay married.
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