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Okay, i've known this girl christie for so long that i can call her my sister. I've known her since 6th grade, and since then we've hung out basically every weekend and every day during the summer. I'm apart of her family.
then this girl casey comes along [i introduced them, i was friends with casey first before christie] and she ruins our friendship/sisterhood.
well, im best friends with christie again, but not with casey. christie is having her sweet16 in december. shes putting casey on her candles BEFORE ME. that really pissed me off and i just wanted to LEAVE her house. casey is candle 7, im number 8. I told her that it pissed me off and she said suck it up. I told my sister and she said its not a big deal, but deep inside it hurts me to death that she thinks about casey before me. and her and casey havent been hanging out as much. casey is going into 9th grade, and christie and i are going into 10th. Don't you find that annoying? Imagine if your best friend dedicated a candle to someone you introduced to them first.
Is it okay that im feeling this way? jealous.. i think thats what i would call it. i told her that i should be before casey, but she just ignored me. and my friend bekki was also over and she said she doesnt know what christies deal was for that, and she found it bitchy too.
i need alot of help. i was thinking about leaving after the 6th candle goes up for the bathroom so i dont kill the girl. and come back intime for me to be called up for the 8th.
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i definitely understand how you feel. and i really think that you DO have a right to feel that way. it's understandable that you feel that way because you've known christie for a longer period of time and you feel that you guys should be closer. in my opinion, i think you did the right thing by confronting your friend about it, but unfortunately, in the end it is still her decision. i think you shouldn't go to the bathroom after the 6th girl lol. just handle it in a mature way. i think if christie continues treating you this way after her sweet 16, you should just try to move on and find new friends or something. i know that will be reallyyyy hard, but do that only if you feel that she's not treating you like a friend should. hope this helps(:
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