Member Since: June 7, 2019
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Last Update: June 8, 2019
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I’m in band and I feel like I don’t belong. I’m not great at playing my instrument. There’s this really hard song “creed”, and I cannot play it at all! Practice doesn’t work. I feel like I should quit, but soon the band is going to an amusement park, and that’s sounds fun so I don’t know. (link)
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If you enjoy playing and want to master it, then I say stay. I myself regret not keeping up on practice and stuff for my own instrument. Everything is always super hard in the beginning, but after a while, it becomes easy and worth every drop of sweat in the end! But if you aren't really interested at all in that sort of thing, then maybe it just isn't for you. Good luck!!
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Recently a new girl moved to our school. I became friends with her, and she seemed really nice. My sister is friends with her sister, and one day the new girl's sister caught the new girl talking bad about my sister behind her back. My sister wants me to stop talking to her, but I don't want to create conflict. If I create conflict, my friends might stop talking to me. What should I do? (link)
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You know, sometimes doing the good thing outweighs the consequences. There might be more consequenses if you continue to be close friends with her. I personally had a friend who did the same, and I chose to drift a little bit away in order to protect my reputation, myself, and the good I believed in. It's hard sometimes (especially if it might damage your popularity, etc) but I always choose to keep my distance from people who might harm me. And if people leave you because of it, then they must not have been the best of friends, either. Your true friends will stick with you, and who knows, maybe you'll meet great people because of it. You can still talk with her and stuff, but my advice is to keep your distance, and make it clear to her or others (if brought up) that you do not affiliate yourself with gossip and such. Good luck!!
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