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Hey guys, I'm Laura, and I'm 17. My boyfriend is 20. We have been together for over a year now, and we have been fighting non-stop lately. We constantly are fighting over stupid stuff, nothing serious or worth fighting over at all. I try to calm him down, but he doesn't drop things until I start balling my eyes out crying, then he apologizes because he feels bad and realizes that I haven't even done anything. I just need help of how to handle situations when we're fighting, because he refuses to let me walk away, no matter what. I want ideas and things I can do to make our relationship happier. Cute things to do for him, and things that we can do together that aren't expensive! Thank you! (link)
the first year in a relationship is tough. but you both have to be strong. dont let stupid stuff ruin the love that you both have for each other. talk about it, not yell,scream or cry. always tolerate respect and always practice compromise. good luck


Okay, there's this guy i am kinda in love with, we dated last year but we broke up, this past spring break we tried dating again but things got a little bad and we broke up again, he isn't the smartest when it comes to flirting or hints that someone likes him, so when i told him that i was still in love with him, we fell for each other pretty quick when we first dated, hoping he would still feel the same, he completely avoided the subject and went onto another one. What should i do? I really want to be with him again...I just don't know what to do anymore...Can someone please help me? (link)
if he is trying to avoid the "L" word, then im sorry to say this but he is not ready to be in a relationship again. you dont want to be mushy. if he is trying to avoid you, do the same thing. act like you dont care. it hurts but usually, when you chase them it drives them away...if you act like you dont care, theyre chasing after you. or you can give yourself a break, stop calling him,text or email, give yourself sometime to heal and let him miss you. you will see changes. if not, then try it another time in the future, because as of now, it isnt working.


can anyone think of conversation tips when texting a guy i want back?

like i havent talked to him for a month and texted him last week bt it was awkward. what can i say to break the ice again?

or anything that can help the conversation gel more? (link)
dont be afraid to say "how you doin sexy thing" it usually brings out smile to our faces. dont be shy. all it takes is that one opportunity. flirt a little bit, joke a little bit, be cute, after all you like the person. good luck!


Ok here's a question that's. Been bothering me for quite some time .how do you get your partner to have sex with you when she's never in the mood iv tride everything buying roses lighting candels giving her a mesage talking to her etc but nothing seems to work what have I missed anything .I truly need some advice I get deppresed like I don't. Mean anything to her like I'm not atractive to her anymore I'm 39 she's 34 and actualy I look very young for my age and not to be conceded or anything but I got a body too but what seems to be the problem I have no clue I couldn't go on without sex the rest of my life just because she don't wnt it should I find a friend with binifets . Don't get me wrong I do love her but sex is apart of me what should I do counceling won't work because I don't think she would go HELP ME!!! (link)
first of all you need to ask her whats going on. sex is very important. and as a girl, roses or candles dont make me horny. now if you grab my hair a little bit, kiss me all over my neck, and take control, its usually a turn on. so try little things. maybe you both need a little spark, so change it up, get a hotel with jacuzzi and all that good stuff.


Is it normal to not get sparks or feel anything at all when I kiss my boyfriend? When we first kissed I felt something but that was it. Anyone else know what I mean?? (link)
it all start perfect and the spark is all around... but there comes a point where you get comfortable with your partner, and the sparks turns into love.
unless, you are falling out of love, and that you know yourself. if any doubts with your relationship you must think and give yourself sometime to know how you really feel, if its love, or falling out of love.




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