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if the hymens are not broken,and just by touching the vagina by the penis can a girl be pregnant? and in a case where the girl is suffering from a problem that she doesn't have her period can she be pregnant?? (link)
First off, a girl can miss her period and NOT be pregnant. Things like being underweight, being anemic, having hormonal problems, stress and the list goes on, can cause a missed period.

Next, a girl can only get pregnant if the guy's penis actually goes in the girl's vagina for sperm to get in and travel up to the girl's cervix to meet the egg, assuming that the girl is ovulating. However, she can still get pregnant if they have sex and the girl is not ovulating as sperm can survive about a few days inside the girl. I cannot remember how many days, though.

I hope that helps!


What happens when you miss your period (link)
You miss your period for a lot of reasons.

Are you underweight or are anemic? If so, you might miss your period at times. It may come back the next month or maybe not. However, I would advise you to visit an Ob-Gyne though to have her professional input.

Do you have any hormonal problems or imbalances? This can also cause you to miss your period. I do not know if your period will return the next month. It is again best if you visit an Ob-Gyne as this is a serious problem. (I would know as I suffer from this).

Have you recently had sex? You may be pregnant and hence, you have missed your period. Please take a pregnancy exam. If it's positive, confirm it with an Ob-Gyne.

Otherwise, you may be encountering some problem in your system that can only be discovered and treated by an Ob-Gyne so again, yes, go visit one.



Hi, I am 20 years old and I recently just lost my virginity. He put it in for like a minute with no condom and i got up and told him we can't do that. I immediately went to go pee afterwards and we had sex after that with a condom. FML if I am pregnant the first time I had sex. My mom will have my head. I haven't been having any signs for pregnancy except a little nauseous. Please help!! (link)
Hi, I can't tell for sure if you're pregnant or not. There's a good chance that you're not but my words are no guarantee. If you had sex within the last 3 days, you can still buy those morning-after pills just to be totally sure.

If you've already passed the 3-day mark, the best way to know for sure is if you've missed your next period. A lot of the symptoms of pregnancy can be caused by other factors. Worrying about whether you're pregnant or not before taking the exam will just stress you out more and might even prevent your period from coming (thus causing you more undue stress). So please stop looking up the symptoms and trying to check yourself against the symptoms.

About the pregnancy exam, the earliest that you can take a pregnancy exam is on the first day you're supposed to have your period. Some exams claim accuracy even if you take it 10 days after having sex but it might give you a false negative/positives. The best time is really on the first day of your next period.

Assuming you're taking one of those pregnancy tests that you can buy at the pharmacy, it's best to take the test when you urinate first thing in the morning. Take your midstream urine, that is, the urine that comes after some time you're urinating.

After you've taken the exam though, it's best to wait a few more days and take another exam just to be sure. These pregnancy tests (from the pharmacy) are mostly accurate but there are still cases of false negatives/positives.

I hope this helps!




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