Member Since: February 2, 2012
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Last Update: February 2, 2012
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I have a huge problem.....I'm a failure at everything in life . All my previous friends have told me so and my whole family is CONSTANTLY telling me that I'm a failure. Even people who don't know me personally, tell me that I'm a failure when they hear about me. So , what they're saying (that I'm a failure) is true, since so many people have told me the same thing. Before, hearing that statement would motivate me to work really hard. And it would work because I would achieve my goals, temporarily. Now, whenever anyone tells me I'm a failure, it doesn't motivate me anymore. Instead, I get really sad and stay in my room alone and cry. I even skip going to college because I'm so sad and don't want to be annoyed by anymore people telling me the same thing. I already have depression and am taking medication for it, so hearing this statement from people doesn't help. Now my question is: HOW DO I GET OVER THIS? HOW DO I MOITIVATE MYSELF AND STAY MOTIVATED? HOW DO I PROVE TO EVERYONE THAT I'M NOT A FAILUTRE? Sorry for the long letter. Please, no smart alecs. (link)
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dont feel this way. you are still young.
i'm a failure as well. i have been working in the company for 1 year and half but no one recognize me. i have been in australia for 5 years but still most of people dont understand my accent.
i believe everyone is a failure at something in life.
dont take too serious about other people's opionion. you must have ur strength on sth. sth you must better than others. as i can see, u r really a considerate person and a nice and modest personality.
be confident. i am proud of you of speaking this out and i believe one day you will be proud of urself as well.
back you up
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