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Member Since: January 3, 2010
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Last Update: January 3, 2010
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i seriously think i'm starting to get depression. the last few months have been insane. my boyfriend of 2 years dumped me (his love faded?), my friends never invite me out anymore and when they do they're using me for a ride or something, i never get invited anywhere anymore, when i try to make plans with people they ALWAYS bail on me or never even call/text me back....and the thing that sucks the most is that i didn't even do anything, to anyone. i'm a genuinely nice person and it sucks to know that noone likes and respects you. i'm up every night crying and i just don't know what to do anymore...i'm not going to kill myself but i don't see the point in living if it just makes you cry every single day. (link)
first of all, I am an old mother with lots of kids so I have heard it all- you are so NORMAL it's almost funny. but it's not. You are lonely and tired of it all. My advice for you...empower yourself. I really think that when you are depressed and lonely and sad that people can tell even if you hide it and they don't want to be around that. Take up karate or some kind of lessons that make you strong. you will meet new people, get stronger and show more confididence. make yourself someone YOU would want to hang out with. Remember that even if you are alone,your in good company.Get strong,hold your head up and take charge of how people treat you. You need an advantage on everyone else- Get a cool job or something where they have to know you. Most of all like yourself. maybe your depressed with yourself that you wasted so much of your time with people that didn't deserve you. Show everyone that THEY screwed up by ignoring you. Time to get to work on you. You cannot change them.




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