-->im Elysa
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i have this friend + shes always talking to me about how she hates one person.. embarrased by another.. and at the same time she pretends to be best friends with the person. she also tells me things people specifically tell her not to tell others [like secrets and stuff] and i know she makes up excuses when people ask her why she's been acting diferently around them. how do i know shes not doing the same thing to me? ive asked her about it and i didnt belive her answer. it sounded just like another one of her excuses. what should i do? (link)
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i have a friend like this to.i think every one probibly does too. what i do, is agnor or just dont pay attention to what she has to stay about other poeple. its most likly that your friend does the same thing she does to other people to you. if i were you, i wouldnt trust her as much as you robibly do now and if you want to find out if and what she is telling other poeple, ask yours and/or her friends. this is pretty much bound to happen to any one. i hope i helped!
.:elysa:.
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ok so what do i do when my "friend" talks to my other friend and tells them that they are getting annyed with me but idont know what i did to get her annoyed at me?? can you please help? (link)
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i would just let your "friend" chill out and let her do her own thing. give her time to be calm and relaxed, let her come to you when shes all set. if you want to know what you did to annoy her, talk to the friends she talked to or ask her yout self, either way would help.
i hope i help
.:elysa:.
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ok so theres this guy that i like and like i went out with him and then i guess things didnt work out and know he doesnt talk to me...and like before we went out he was like my really good friend now it seems that he doesnt even wanna know me how could i ask him if im to shy to go up to him around all his friends and ask him. (link)
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i understand that your shy.. but dont be. if you want him to talk to you, you should make that move first. go up to him casualy and talk to him. if you need to talk to him about whats going on betwen you guys, tell him you need to talk, then spill your guts out. tell him what your feeling between the not getting talked to, to what you want to ask. you can also write him a note telling him and explaining eveything your feeling. if you want you can have your friend talk to him for you.
i hope i help
.:elysa:.
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Ok, so theres this guy in school that i liked for a very long time. We were great friends last year and did almost everything together, it seemed like he wanted to be with me and i wanted to be with him. We started drfting apart and becoming less of friends. I get the feeling he almost thinks im kinda weird but im not sure. Hes flirting with other girls and not hangin out with me as mush as he used too, what should i do? whenever i try to stop liking him i feel a part of me that can never come back. I cant just go talk to him and tell him i almost cried over this several times and have no idea what to do. We arent that close of friends anymore so how do i express it? (link)
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i totaly know how you feel, if you let him go you feel that he'll be gone forever. if you really need to get your feelings out, i would write him a note asking what happened this year and remind him of all the good times you've had together and see what he says (dont be scared to express your feelings). if you want to hang out with him more, do it and be your self dont change your self to be like all the other girls he flirts with. when you talk to him, bring up a fun time/good memory you had together and go from there. if he thinks your wierd , so be it, dont worry about what people think. like i said you can write him a note or you can give him signals that you want to talk to him or hang out with him.
(you can tell me what happened if you want)
i hope i helped!!
.:elysa:.
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ok so i have this friend and like ive known her for a while and now this new girl came and my old friend just ignores me....like i would say hi while shes talking to the new girl and she just walks away...could you help and tell me what i could do? (link)
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i would sit down and talk to her. ask her whats up, and why shes agnoring you. you could write her a note saying we need to talk or just go up and talk to her at resses and lunch. she also can be doing this to get attention from you. if she doesnt give you a straight answer then talk to her friends and see what they say.if you known her for a long time you probibly know a way to get it out of her. if you've been hanging out with this new girl alot then she might be getting a little bit jelouse. just talk to her and make her feel notised.
(if u want, u can tell me how every thing went)
thanks for the question
i hope i helped!
.:elysa:.
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so i like this guy and this other guy and im pretty sure they both like me. what happens when one of them asks me out? or both? and i cant choose becuz their both great and so i dont know which to pick (link)
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heres what i would do; i would think about who i would feel the most comfortable with, for example, if you end up brakeing up, who would it be more ocwared with. but i also would make it fair by which ever one asks you out first, go out with them. if you like them both just lisen to your heart.
i hope i helped!
.:elysa:.
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ok, i have this friend that i see in school and out. we are one the same sport team. she talks to me out of school, but she never realy talks to me at school. for example i would see he in the hall and say "hi *name*" but she would reply. but then out of school we would talk and hangout a little. i'm just wondering if you knowwhy she would do that.
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well, she might not have much time to talk to you in school, she might be in a rush to a class or somthing like that, and the only time she can talk to you is out of school. what you could do to help this situation is insted of just saying hi in the halls you talk to her about something she would react to and talk to you about. im not saying stand in the hall way all day and talk, but just bring somthing up and talk to her about, whether is a boy, a class, a funny story or somthing else.
i hope i helped
.:elysa:.
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