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Member Since: March 23, 2011
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20F.

So before things start getting all hot and heavy with a guy, I'd thought I'd be nice and warn them that I'm a virgin. Well ..no guy ever believes me! They're all like ..yeah right your lying! I don't believe that one bit.

It's not like I come off as a slut, I carry myself well but I think it's because how I look. I'm a pretty girl, I know guys are interested in me which probably doesn't do me well. I don't know how to feel about this, should I be pissed that no guy believes I'm a virgin? I don't know what to do about the situation I guess. (link)
That's absurd!...but you know why they don't believe you?...it's because ANY unattractive girl can get laid and I find, ESPECIALLY the unattractive ones, tend to be a bit easy. Guys are probably use to women 'using' their body because I think some girls who aren't very pretty get their confidence boosted by sleeping around or hopping into bed with a guy and thinking "Oh look this guy wants to sleep with me, I must be attractive/desirable...etc"...so if guys get use to unattractive girls sleeping with them, it's much more shocking for someone who's pretty to still be a virgin...but who cares...they're ignorant. You can CHOOSE to be more picky and selective because you're attractive, not like some desperate types who need to use their bodies to keep guys around.

Seriously if that was me, and they didn't believe me, I'd say "Okay see ya, I guess you will never find out now if I'm a still a virgin, because I only date people who believe my word"..Reject them first if they're going to be idiots. Lose your virginity to someone classy!




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