Hi! My name is Melissa, and I am seventeen years old. I am very mature for my age, and my friends always come to me for advice. I'm very open-minded, and I am able to see things from other people's perspectives. Plus, I am very honest and my advice comes from my heart. Please do not hesitate to ask me any questions that you may have! Thank-you! :)
Gender: Female
Location: Illinois
Age: 17
AIM: piinkcarebearr
Member Since: July 23, 2004
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I started to like someone.. that has hurt me manny times in the past.. and i dont know wat to do. Its not a big problem. but im soo confused. BEfore he lied to me, and went out with my friend. HELP (link)
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I hate to break it to you, but if this guy has hurt you in the past, then chances are, he will hurt you again. Also, all relationships are based on TRUST, friendships and relationships. It doesn't seem as though you are able to trust this guy very much. I know this will probably hurt, but you need to move on and start liking other people. Maybe you can expand your horizons and start hanging out with other people. Before you know it, you might even like someone new. Good Luck! :)
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Whenever I see a few people at school huddled in a corner laughing and looking at me, I think they are laughing at me. Then I end up skipping class cause I dont want to have to go through that. What can I do so I stay in class and not worry about them? (link)
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First of all, there is basically no way of knowing if they ARE in fact talking about you, plain and simple. However, by running away from them and skipping class, you are just letting them get the best of you and contributing to your problem. It sounds as though you have some issues with self-esteem as well. Perhaps you worry too much about what other people think of you. A good idea would be to give yourself a pep talk. Maybe say, "Okay, I am going to go into that classroom, and I am not going to be afraid. I am going to be brave." It may sound silly, but it may help you. You might also want to consider talking to a counselor or someone about your problems. Good Luck! :)
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my friend...... is so depressed.. i was, but now im happier than ever. It feels so good being happy. I want her to feel that too, but its so hard. I just want her to live. and not let life pass her by. i donno wat to do. (link)
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Quite honestly, there is only so much that you can to do help your friend on your own. She may require professional help. Has she been depressed for a while, or is this just a "phase" that she is going through? I would definitely talk to a counselor about her and urge him/her to talk to your friend. This may sound drastic, but depression is not something to be taken lightly. If she is clinically depressed, then she may require therapy and perhaps even medication. As her friend, you must look out for her and do what's best for her. Good Luck! :)
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