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This is my story. It's kind of long.
I moved across the world, literally 12,000 miles.
I had a boyfriend who is Libra.
Madly in love, he promised to move here but he never did.
I understand why, because of money. I can't wait for him forever. He was my first love, first kiss, first time.
He treats me like a princess. I love him still. very much.
I realized that he will never move here. Unless some divine miracle took control. I feel guilty about it.
We broke up. I told him i hated him which is not true. He makes me very mad sometimes. He is libra.
I met this guy who became my best friend in the new place I moved.
He's funny, sweet, cute, and scorpio.
My mom was aquarius and married a scorpio, my dad. They divorced. My mom is harrd to deal with.
but we get along as friends. I think she gets on my nerves because she is bi polar. hard to deal with.
My dad is hard to deal with because he is a D-word. I know how to deal with him though.
This guy that is scorpio. lets call him. 'mr'
so mr and me became best friends and he lives near me so we hang a lot. things between him and his girlfriend werent the same and broke up with her.
he and i have very good chemistry, but he is a virgin. every time we get close to making love, i don't want to anymore. i just love cuddling. is it a woman thing? I want sex. i want it bad. but im not fired up enough..which is hard to understand because im 16. lets not get into this 'too young for sex ' thing. im talking about compatibility.
I found out mr made me angry because he made me jealous because a lot of girls talk with him.
we sorted it out. because i lie a lot too.
i heard its important to dominate in a scorpio relationship so i took control in the situation. I had him crying and breaking down. I felt bad about that. His friend tried to talk to me about it. Everything is good between us now.
but im wondering.
1.Why is passion so close yet so far?
( I want to make love with him, he means very much to me, we were best friends before this.)
2. I know scorpio and aquarius dont belong together, but is there hope since i know how to deal with them? (my dad is scorpio)
3. I know libras are better for me, but the fire kind of burned out from being distant. It sounds very selfish, i know.
4. Does it seem like it will all be okay in the end, or what should i do?
*also* scorpio guy and me are very happy whenever we're with each other. nothing could bring us down. we love falling asleep with each other. we can't go ten minutes without hugging or kissing.
the attraction between us is very very good. maybe the sex thing is my sex drive? *i finished my period a little more than a week ago* (link)
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hiii i'm Ashley and i too am an aquarius i am now married to my scorpio husband Delano...... lemme just say first of all the game playing you gotta stop it. you seem to be hurting him slowly and he thinks there is alot more of you to be uncovered that's why he's sticking around. and well there is but nothing deep to be uncovered and that's what he's looking for. the reason for you not wanting to have sex is probably because u think the fire will be gone after you do I promise you it wont. me and my husband lived together slept in the same bed for a month and we didn't have sex cuz we didn't wanna ruin what we had. youv'e made him wait long enough just give it up already. The fire never goes away I still get butterflies just thinking about sex with my hubby. it's like it's never enough. now i know my husband is the one for me i know it with all of my heart...... and this guy may or may not be the one for you my advice to you being with a scorpio.... stop trying to be in control this guy can show you so many things he can open your mind to so many new possibilities and ways of thinking. I know it's hard to let someone else take control sometimes but I promise you you wont regret it just follow him for a while study him he is probly the most intriguing person you will ever meet. You may think he's simple and quiet and sweet and shy but theres a whole nuther side he hasn't let you see yet. HE is a ridiculously awesome person with a slight mood swing here and there and if you don't see it now you will when you get close to him and when i say slight i'm being sarchastic. their mood swings are f-ing ridiculous.... but they don't last long. lemme tell you my story I am from Texas i am 22 yrs old i moved to colorado to be with my scorpio when i was 17 scary ya! we have been together ever since and we now have a daughter together but he is in PRISON :(((( so sad for me but i know there is not any other guy for me in this whole world we have something so real and intense I have never felt like this with anyone else. I don't wanna give you any weird ideas I don't know if you do drugs and if you don't just ignore what i'm about to say if you experiment i urge you to roll with this guy after that I swear to you you will NEVER EVER leave his side. Just an idea but anyway you should stop trying to be in control. I know you love your freedom this is sometimes a problem for me also the way i see it I can still be free just while holding his hand and letting him be free with me. you can never be too close to this guy in his eyes i know you might worry about you too getting tired of eachother but it won't happen on his part any time soon. please stop playing games with him scorpios are very serious and he's gonna hold a grudge later and keep bringing it up they never forget and they like to flip the switch and give you a taste of your own medicine when they know they got you @ a vulnerable state. Don't be scared of it though it won't last too long if he really loves you he'll piss you off for a while but i mean REALLY piss you off and then he'll apologize or forgive you for your previous game playing but ....he'll never forget. If you really wanna be with this guy it's gonna take a lot of hard work on both of your parts but in the end it is sooo worth it. you two have a long way if you wanna work out...... any other questions or advice feel free to email me on my hubby's email Dman1019@gmail.com or on myspace.com/ashleylvsyou good luck xoxo
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