Member Since: April 18, 2010 Answers: 1 Last Update: April 19, 2010 Visitors: 345
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Tell me if this is normal because i'm freaking out.
I'm a 17 year old girl. Junior in High school. I still can't wear tampons. Is that bad?? I only wear pads and i've tried soooooo many times to try tampons but they hurt too badly and feel weird all the time and i just overall hate them. I feel so different. like other girls can handle sex and stuff, but i can barely put in a tampon! is something wrong with me?? It will be a year with my boyfriend in May and he's always wondering why I don't want him to finger me. If i tell him, or anybody for that matter, i'll be so embarrassed and feel like i'm so different than everybody.
Helppp i'm desperate.. everytime i try, i start crying in frustration because it NEVER works out. I get about an inch in, and then it starts to feel weird and gross.
If it helps, i'm terrified of needles. so i think that putting in a tampon reminds me of a needle going in me. do you think that could be a reason?? (link)
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I wouldn't sweat it too much it took me forever to figure out the trick with tampons. I was fingered before I got them figured out and it was well not bad so just relax when you are trying to put one in u are probably thinking too much into it that's what happens sometimes and I one of my bffs is going on 20 and has never used one in her life so you should know that you aren't alone :) good luck
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