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Member Since: October 3, 2004
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Last Update: October 17, 2004
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ok, this is kinda embarassing, but i heard that the first time you have sex, it hurts (for a girl)

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Space fem said----"My advice is to make sure you're darn good and emotionally ready before having sex. If you've never had oral sex or been touched, you're far from being ready. The emotional trauma of having sex for the first time too early hurts a lot more than actual penetration."
That is not good advice! It's good that you acknowledge the emotional factors that a woman has her first time, but giving the advice that you need to have oral sex first is incredibly bad advice!
If a woman abstains till marriage she can certainly handle the emotion of her first time plus It will be a much better emotional bond between the two virgins.
Maybe that's why virgin brides are more likely to stay married!
Is it dumb to think that someone will wait till marriage? Well, I'm a 26 year old virgin you tell me. I get all kinds of questions all the time and actually women (most of them non-virgins) are very open to talk with me about this. You'd be surprised how many of them tell me they wish they would have waited. True love waits!





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