Member Since: February 6, 2008
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im a freshman at my highschool and im new, i didnt move or anything ive always lived here, i just used to go to a different school. in the begining of school i thought i would make tons of friends since im a nice person you know. and i started off not talking in any of my classes. I hate to say this, but its still that way. and its half way through the year already. today at school someone told me people think im weird because i hardly talk in class..but the truth is im just a very quiet, shy person if u dont take the time to know me personally. once Im comfortbale, i never stop talking actually. And i hate how quiet i am in classes..i hate how people think im weird because of it..im sorry that im shy but thats just me, until you get to know me. it really upsets me to know that..i cried for the rest of the day after someone told me people think that about me..i dont want that reputation. I just wish others would take the time and get to know me. I wish people could see what a fun person I can be. Im also very upset about this because now im starting to get the idea people dont want to talk to me because they think im weird because im quiet. and it just pisses me off because its like you know what. if you think im quiet then why dont you just talk to me and find out if i actually AM quiet. because you know what, im not. im a very loud hyper person. and it really makes me mad at the same time. I hate this school. I want to go to a different one. And yeah i have friends, but not in my classes. and i dont have as many as id like. please help me, how can i become more talkative? i never EVER know how to start a good conversation. and its like how do i do that when no one wants to actually talk to me. I feel like im becoming depressed about this because its been happening for a while and I hope I become a little happier soon. Im really not liking my life right now.
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i think you should try and stand out more maybe dress a little brighter or you know make your appearence stand out more but for the most part you should just try and be yourself sometimes people aren't attracted to you and that's ok but if you want them to become more friendly you have to show it and like when somebody says something funny or something positive that you feel like you have a comment on say it and people might actually agree and from there on you'll probably start talkin to more people which will make you have more friends or you can try and become cool with your friends other friends and you'll meet more people that way or join after school activities with one of your friends become more school involved those were just some of my suggestions hope i can help any
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Sorry it's so long...Okay, I'm not sure if I'm over-reacting but my boyfriend (age 20) is literally in love with his mommy. The birthday card he gave to her read this....
Mom,
May this Birthday be a special day for you, just as special as you are to me. First of all I want to thank you for raising me by yourself and doing a great job at it. I know it seems as I get older I need you less but that isn't true. I am still learning things from you every day.
Even though I am not into all of that religious stuff, I beleive you are an Angel. You were put on this earth to help and guide others. I want to thank you for all you have done for me, and guiding me on to the right path of life.
Mom, you have done so much for me and I can't even begin to tell you how much I appreciate it.
You will always be the best MOM in the world!!!
The older you get the wiser you get and you will always be beautiful.
He is 20 years old and his mom still cooks his dinner, washes his clothes, and tells him how to live his life! Not to mention he just forgot our THREE YEAR anniversary...he also went on vacation w/ his mom during my sweet sixteen (I got no card or call for that matter). I'm at a loss. We have been "dating" for three years but we have NEVER been out on a date together!!! Yet, he takes his mom out for dinner all the time! He is always rubbing her back or massaging her head but for me, it's like pulling teeth to get a massage!! AND I'M HIS GIRLFRIEND!!!! I would greatly appreciate any advice, because I've been trying different approaches for three years and no luck yet!! THANKS!! (link)
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umm i think you should make a list of all the good he does for you /reasons you like him and then make another list of reasons you should let him go/pet peeves you have and which ever one is longer you should go through with i know it may sound kinda childish but it worked 4 me
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I split up with my best friend about a year ago. And only about a week ago he apologized and wants to be friends again but when he was a dickhead he hacked my myspace and email and said loads of bitchy stuff. All of my other friends are fine with him but he didnt do anything to them before. Should I forgive him or keep away?
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if he is worth keeping as a friend then you should accept his apology and try and move forward but if he's not worth the time and you feel that he will do it again then you should keep him away
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