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Recently i just keep getting so stressed and aggrivated so easily. I know i can be that sort of person though that gets frustrated easily, like when im reading i cant stand when people talk, it makes me lose focus and annoys me, but this is worse.

My little brother is going through puberty so he's all hormonal and he just shouts things and is a brat alllll the time which is causing me alot of stress. My mums also believes she's going to go through menopause soon so she's been the same and they just both annoy me so much.

It doesnt help i cant escape them and they wont leave me alone.

But ontop of that, i have to do 13 artworks, yes 13, for school, and read a book, plus perform 3 songs for music (i have stage fright) and maths homework (speaks for itself).

I'm begginging to get used to the work and slowly go through things like my artworks, planning and orginising time for each thing, but theres always that uncontrollable stress.

From people who meditate, will it make me feel better? I just need someway to release my stress and because my mums being how she is right now she won't even let me do things like go out for a walk or run or even join a sport. (link)
well we all go through stress but try to go to a cool secluded are in your house or back yard and try to inspire yourself to draw and work on your artpieces. Try to cut fresh flowers and place them in you room to relax and appreciate beauty and while your at it give some to your mom and ask her if she would want to walk with you or at least let you take a walk. For the songs practice them in front of the mirrir and maybe infront of a couple friends that will be honest in a caring way. Ignore your brother and go to your quiet place


i need help i babysit and the child acts really sweet while the parents are around but hes a devil when they leave what should i do



signed
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well before speaking to the parents observe the child and see what kind of activities he likes and try them out have him channel all the disobediance in to something positive. Try this draw a map of the house and include things you have hidden through out the house and have him find them(go with him).Also practice a pretend earthquake and have him get to a safe spot you have chosen from everyroom in the house. If none of this works simply talk to the parents and explain that he is disrespectful wnen they are not around


well, i would love to be with my ex, but i know its never going to happen. i miss him everyday but he doesnt want me anymore. we dated for almost 2 years and he broke up with me. he came back to me about 3 times telling me how he was sorry and hes just been confused. but about a month ago he broke up with me when he found out his mom was going to die soon.. and i tried really hard to get him back but he said he just doesnt like me anymore. and about a week later his mom died and since then he barely will talk to me. i told him how much i love him and how i wanted to be there for him but he told me to just leave him alone and move one.. im not sure if its just because of his mom or if he really just doesnt want me. its hard because hes done this 3 or more times saying the same things and then coming back to me.. so its very confusing but this time i dont think hes coming back beacuse normally he'll still give me a call once n awhile. im trying to move on but its so hard. what can i do to help with the pain. all ive been doing is going out drinking, meeting new people but everynight i go home and feel so empty. ive met a lot of new guys but i dont like any of them they're all just annoying. i just want my ex so bad, and i need to get over him but nothnig is working. hellpp (link)
well you have to understand that at this moment he is going through a tough time and dont drink anymore because thtat could lead you to do something stupid or even worse to death by drunk driving and let him ,guys dont like beggers and do yourself a favor a have dignity. You must be pretty so have a me-day were you can treat yourself to the spa go to the beach take your dog for a walk anything but sit and sob.




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