okay, my name is lizzy and i can give great advice
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Member Since: August 22, 2004
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Last Update: August 30, 2004
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ok.. well here's how it goes.. i really like these two guyz well actually i think it's 4 but i'm not sure.. and well i like this one guy but he has a g/f and she's nice an all.. but i like him ALOT ALOT and then the other guy... well someone said that he likes me and this other girl since last year.. and he still likes us.. and she said that she's the only guy she would ever go out.. and so i feel kinda bad likin him.. and this new guy at my school "claims" he has a g/f at a different school.. which is his way of sayin he don't like me.. and then i like this other guy in the grade above me and i had NO IDEA how much we had in common and how sweet he actually was.. and i really wanna tell the first guy something really personal.. but i don't want it to destroy his relationship.. and the second guy.. i like alot.. but i'm not sure about his feelings toward me.. and the third guy i think i'm just gonna forget about.. and the fourth guy.. i'm startin to like him more.. buti have no clue what to do with all my emotions flying.. what should i do?
- TNHS girl - (link)
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get your boys straightened out hun! you're going to have to talk to them one on one.. each and EVERY one of them and tell them how you feel.. otherwise you'll never feel better.. ONE of the four should eventually like you and then you'll be happy as can be.. i don't really know what else to say
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what do i do? my mom is pregnant.. and i am really angry... i liked being an only child... everything is so messed up... she doesn't want to get married either.. i'm happy for her.. but i haven't told her that i am...i just don't know how to handle this.. this is all so new to me.... i feel so bad cause i know it's hard for her to be happy when all i'm doing is bringing her down... but i'm so upset... i'm crying as i write this because i know that everything i sday to her hurts her... i know she wants to be happy... and i know she never meant to hurt me... but i just don't know what to do.... please help me... (link)
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i've already talked to you about this in person and i will talk to you more if you want.. i think you need to sit down with your mom and have a DEEp discussion with her about everything... and by the way.. no one will know who you are b/c it's against rules to give out your name. so talk to me and i'll help
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ok theres this guy at school (tnhs) and hes fliirting with like everyone.. we use to be the bestest friends we are still cool and everything but still i dunno why i dont like him with all the gurls.. i was thinking maybe i like him but then i dont think so cause i like this other guy in 6th grade and then i was thinking aybe i dont want him flirting with them cause then he dont spend time with me.. please help
-cheerleader-guy promblems (link)
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yeah sometimes it's jealousy... it's not a bad thing, it just means you care about him. i doubt you like him unless you really do think you have feelings for him. i understand exactly how you feel b/c i felt like that a couple of days ago.. but just talk to him about how you feel and be like "hey, now that you're getting all the attention from other girls, you aren't hanging out with your friends (me) anymore.." or something like that... don't keep your feelings bottled up.
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ok.. well there's this guy.. that likes me like ALOT!! and uh.. well there's one problem.. he lives in New Jersey... and he got my phone number.. and he called me last nite.. i mean i like him and everything.. but not like that.. and i've already told him that i only liked him as a friend.. but he just doesn't seem to get tha picture.. and so he calls me and is like... i hope we stay in touch.. so then i will finally get to meet you.. but like wen i'm like 18 or 21.. and he was like do you think that we'll stay in touch that long?.. i was like.. no i dont' think so.. i mean.. i like him as a friend.. but nothing more than that.. b/c i like ppl at my skool.. and he lives no where near me.. and i just don't kno wat to do.. help me please.. it seems like he's pushing for a relationship.. but i don't want a long distance relationship.. and i've never formally met tha guy.. so if you could give me some advice.. it'd really help me out.. thanx
i heart you lizzy... *that should give you a hint on who i am* hehe.. lol bye (link)
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just tell him straight out... "i dont FRAPPING like you.." but don't use my word.. hehehehe yeah.. ok well i'll talk to you about this in person
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hey lizzy i want some advice on this one dude from my school i luv him still but hes forgetten me so it seems but theres also this other dude that i am thinking of liking too which school i chose? and what should i talk to each of them about when i do talk to them?
THNS-this chic (link)
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well, i can't really tell you which one to choose, you're going to have to make that decision on your own.. but when you talk to them, be yourself.. and whenever you see them just run up to them and be like "hey!" that's really all i have to say.. :)
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dude...lzzi WHATS UP1!?!?!? well i need advice...and ive heard that u give great advice!
i need help....im cheating on my wife...and i dont know what to do ....ive been married to her for about lil less than a year...but...im cheating on her...i dont know what to do! i still love her..and i think she knows...but she doesnt seem to mind....lol......well.....yeah......
you should know who this is....wifey (link)
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well scott.. i just don't know what to tell you, do you love your wife more or do you love mandy more? i really can't tell you what to do but i'm sure wifey doesn't want to get a divorce.. heh'
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uh i really dig this chick and all. but we have been there done that and its all over. but i cant get over her and we are friends and all but we always fight and sometimes i hate her and love her. what to do? (link)
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just talk to the chick and see what she thinks about you, i really can't give you advice on something like that but if you really love her then you know a fight can't get between such a great relationship.. so try it out and the worst thing that could happen is that you'd be in the same situation that you're in now.. so just go ahead and tell her how you feel.. and i think the "fighting" is flirting in a different sense.
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hi lizzy yesterday i was running laps at a local gym and my stomach started to hurt but since im a hardcore athlete i kept pushing on. and before i knew i had diarreahed in my sweat pants. i was with my girlfriend and she was totally grossed out. i laughed and then cried. she said i was the sickest person she had ever met
im sad. (link)
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well i don't really know what to tell you, take some laxatives and stay home for a couple of days until your "poopoo" gets better ;-)
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okay i just moved and theere is this really really annoying girl that lives behind me. she calls me literally everyday and shes nice and all but she tries to act black all the time! shes like:"im pimpin right hurr dis summa" and shes serious abouT! AND shes obsessed with the yankees and derek jeter and that is all she ever ever ever talks about, unless shes acting black. i dont wanna hurt her feelings bt what am i supossed to do? AND she always wants to go into town but here mom is really overprotecitve and only lets her stay for 10 minutes. so whats the point of going up and down hills in the blazing sun for just 10 minutes?!?! ugh its really annoying! what would you do? thanks (link)
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well, just be honest with the girl.. it couldn't be all that bad.. and if she takes it hard.. you'll just have to work things out and explain to her why it bugs you that she tries acting black when she's really white (if she is white) i mean.. i would just confront her about it.. [in a nice way though] and say "hey, you know, we hang out alot and you should really try and be yourself b/c you'll feel a whole lot better about yourself" and then just tell her that you think it's pointless to walk/ride (whatever) a long way if you're not going to stay very long. Just get a parental to come with you and they can go eat lunch or shop while you're doing your owm thing.. you know? that was a tuffy.. i'm not quite sure i gave you a very good answer but good luck
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hey lizzy, geese i want this guy to lyke me but i dowt he duz, how do i make a good empression on him but i dunt knoe... help me! (link)
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all you have to do is be yourself, and if doesn't like you for who you are then he doesn't derserve you. and PLEASE.. do NOT put on an act for a boy.. They don't like girls for the act that they put on for them, they like girls for who they are.. and if it's one of those guys who likes you for looks and what you'll do with him... flush him down the toilet like a piece of shit.. please :-)
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okay all year i have liked this guy and we were both flirting and i really thot he was gunna ask me out and then he went and asked out this ho! i was so pissed. and then my friend called him and was like: do you like her? and he said no. so i was really really upset and then during this school year my friend asked him again and he smiled and said maybe! why the hell didnt he just ask me out when he had the chance!??! and now that i dont go to that school nemore i noe it just wont work so i need advice!=) (link)
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well.. all i can say is that, maybe he wasn't ready for a relationship... considering.. he went out with a "ho".. just talk to him and be honest with him.. their's nothing better than honesty.. atleast you'll feel better about yourself and you'll get the REAL truth from him.. and trust me on this one.. just b/c your friends tell you something about a boy, doesn't always mean it's true.. girls can be pretty cruel to their friends and i know that first hand b/c some of my "best friends" back stabbed me just to get to a boy. i don't really know what else to tell you other than to follow your heart and to do whats best.
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hey lizzy! i kinda need some help lol well thats y im askin u! well ok there is sumone i like but nobody noes but i have liked him before but nothin ever happened and i kinda got hurt so i dont wanna go through that again! im perty sure u noe wut i mean plus there is there is the fact that 2 of my clostest friends happen to like him too! how can i get over this guy?????
thanx....... anonymous (link)
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well.. you don't have to get over him, b/c that's not really going to help you if all you do is try and stop thinking about him.. you'll just think about him more.. i say, have an open mind for all new things [boys] and if you think someone at your school is cute, then get to know them a little and i'm sure you won't have a problem finding someone just as interesting as your current LOVVERRR... but if you really want to get over this person, you should tell them how you feel and they'll either take the hint and ask you out or say that they just want to be friends.. and neither one is bad b/c you'll know how they feel about you instead of you regretting not telling this person for the rest of your life.... year.. whatever..
sorry if i didn't help much.. post again to let my know how things go "anonymous"
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my dog keeps on humping my cat... what do i do???.. and do oyu know what kind of babies if they had sex, what kind of babies they would have?.. okay well i as jw.!!! (link)
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well... i don't know what to tell you.. you can't break up true love.. i guess they'll be having dats.. or cogs? haha yeah.. okay krista.. hopefully i was helpful considering you don't have a dog or cat
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Ok here goes..i Have this PIMP car that is really cool and attracts alot of girls..yet i need a new one so my insurance won't be so high..how do i keep the girls and the insurance bills down low lol (link)
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well... i say.. you get another pimpin' car.. and keep the girls... but if you can't keep the girls.. atleast you'll have ONE love.. your car? heheh i don't know.. if the girls like you for your car.. there's got to be a problem with you..
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help me lizzy i cant think of nething to ask advice for
--->KEVIN (link)
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haha well... when you have girl problems.. which you probably will soon, come to me.. and i'll help you.
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lizzy, i have a problem. i need money. i am in a huge $350 debt and i need a solution to get money. the thing is is that i need it in a month. im too young to get a job. wat can i do? please help lizzy, u r my only hope!!! (link)
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i say... you babysit.. i know it's not really something guys normally do but you get paid about $5 an hour if not more.. i think that's pretty good and you could definetely get $350 a month.. if that doesn't work.. sell lemonade! :-)
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what do i do when i think i'm beginning to like a person that i never thought i'd like...i don't know what to do because i know one of my closest friends like him and he likes a different girl and i know it's not me.... i don't want to tell him... i kno he'll never like me cause we're way to good of friends.... help... (link)
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alright, you need to go with your heart.. personally i think you should tell him. all great relationships start with a solid friendship. i'm sure that if he knew you liked him, he would think differently about you. i know exactly who you're talking about and you have nothing to worry about, i'm sure he will always want to be friends with you no matter if you like him or not. you'll never know how he feels about you if you don't tell him how you feel. He's a great guy and you should definetely go for him. As for your friend, it's not your fault that he doesn't like her and i'm sure she understands completely. Just talk with her about it and make sure she understands that you really do like him for who he is and not just b/c you're jealous of someone else.
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okay, i just moved and i had to leave the greatest friends of all time. i went to a party tonight and the girls were nice and all but it made me really really really homesick. at the end of the party i started crying. im shy until i get to noe you. i just dont noe how to go up to someone and make friends with them.im really nervous about school and i need someone to get me thru. so, if you could just give me some reassurance and guidance i would love you forever!lol! thanks =) (link)
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well, all i really have to say to you is, it doesn't matter what other people think. be yourself around the people you don't know and if they don't like you, it's their problem. you've got to find friends who like you for who you are and not who you try to be. Just be as talkative as possible. be friendly and i have NO doubt that you will be the most popular girl at your new school
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what do i do when 2 of my best friend don't like each other (link)
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well, you can't really do anything about that except try and get along with both of them, you have to keep the friendships seperate i guess.. as long as you're friends with both of them it doesn't matter. you can't make everyone like each other.. i think you're being a little too hard on yourself, and if i know who you're talking about, you know that one of those people has a reason in their mind. sorry if i didn't help but it made sense to me
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