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I have had alot of things happen to me in the past which is why I feel that I would like to help others. I was abused when I was a child by a male family friend . Then a close female member of my family abused me for 2 years. I have had sex with more guys than I should have. I had a abortion when I was 18years old. I got married and had a child at 19. When I split from my husband for sleeping with my best friend and getting used as a punch bag my husband made it hard for me to keep my son so I haven't been with him for 15 years. I am now with a great buy and very happy waiting for the day my son comes for me. Believe me I couldn't make it up. So I will try help if I can.
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whats the most important thing when having sex (link)
being carefull by using a condom every time. wanting to have sex and enjoy it.


16/f, virgin.
I am going to be having sex soon and the guy I'm with is REALLY experienced... and I'm obviously not, I mean, since I'm a virgin. The farthest I've gone was being fingered.

Ok so he doesn't know I'm a virgin. While we're doing it will everything just come naturally for me? Is that how it is for most people? What should i do besides just lie there taking it? Does it typically hurt the first time?

ANY advice to help make this less stressful for me is appreciated.
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Hi there, If this is really what you want then you should tell him that you are a virgin. That way he should be gentle with you and take his time. You should be relaxed, have lots of foreplay that should make it easier. It may hurt a little. It will come naturally to you. I remember my first time what a disaster as it was his first time too so we did'nt have a clue what we were doing!! Please be carefull use condoms at all times, be 100% sure it's what you want.
Enjoy it as you will always remember your first time.
good luck let me know how you get on.
P.S your the first one I've answered too!!




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