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I'm always giving relationship advice to my friends and co-workers and I've decided to finally share my unique perspective on love and relationships with all of you. My experience comes from my own failed relationships and navigating the male mind of my husband.
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My boyfriend of over 4yrz cheated on me, he was drunk and kissed another girl...Do you think I should forgive him??? He been crying and is truly sorry he said, and he said he was drunk and it didnt mean anything at all..I found out becoz the girl told me..this was over 1 month ago...Now he is not friends with her and wants nothing to do with her at all.( they used to be really good friends) thats all that had happen a kiss. (link)
If you are absolutely POSITIVE nothing more than a kiss occurred, then I would forgive him. However, I question the fact that a) it was the girl that told you and NOT your boyfriend and b) why are they no longer friends? Your boyfriend should have manned up and told you himself about the incident. Could it be the reason he is no longer friends with the other female is because she spilled the beans? This may be a good time to take a hard, honest look at your relationship in general. People in a committed relationship do not kiss other "friends" -- drunk or not.




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