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Okay, my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 1/2 months now. Anyway, at the beginning ont the relationship we'd be so eager to talk to eachother, and talk on the phone every night, and ditch friends for eachother, etc.
Now, we don't talk on the phone for periods of time. (Right now it's been 11 days since I've talked to him on the phone) And we hang out amazingly less, and I don't feel the urge anymore to check the computer every 5 minutes to see if he's online. When I do get to talk to him, I feel so uninterested. I could honestly go days without talking to him, and it wouldn't bug my anymore. Sometimes I cry because I don't understand what's happening, and it really upsets me. Could it be that I'm just losing interest/we both are in eachother? :(
Tuesday night on AIM I told him that I felt I was losing interest in him, and he repsonded, "Geez, I like you a lot, I can't just stop." Then he put up an away message that said, "I fucking screwed up somehow." And signed off. We eventually resolved the problem, but I feel I lied. I told him I still did like him, and I was stupid to say that. But really, I feel EXACTLY like that. I'm not as interested. What's happening? Do I WANT to get over him or something..?
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Hey,
It's like so obvious you don't like the guy anymore.
Do him a favour and nicely tell him.Don't lie that you like him....it's stupid because you're gonna be hurting yourself and him.You guys should stay frends though,just simply say ur sorry but your feelings for him have changed and you dont find him that much interesting anymore, or you can just tell him that you haven't been feeling much interest for him and u wanna fix it so you gys should hang out more and do the fun stuff you guys used to do.I hope my advice helps,o ye i think you should also appologise for just burstin out on aim that you wer losing interest in him and then tell him you wanna try to work it out or tell him that you want some time off or sumthing.
Forsaken Angel LILF
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