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My boyfriend and I are both 20 years old, have been together over 2 years and we were each other's firsts, and about 4 months ago I started on a birth control pill, Yasmin, because we both decided it would be safe for us, but even though I am on the pill, we still use condoms for extra security.
Over the 4 months I noticed a big change in personality, I cry a lot for no reason, get depressed for no reason. Go from being o.k. to really mad. I also have gotten a major rash all over my body, and some smaller ones. my skin has also become dry and itchy. sometimes my arm or leg feels like i have to stretch it, like it is tingly, and doesn't go away. I am tired no matter how much sleep I get, I am very irritable and anxious. I also seemed to have lost some interest in my bf all together, as well as sex.
I have a feeling it is from the pill, and I have heard of other girls having strokes, major blood clots, and mood problems from being on Yasmin and I am considering going off of it.
The thing is, is do I stay on this pill, and deal with these problems and other potential ones, or do I go off the pill, but worry about getting pregnant by just using a condom? I just don't feel like me when I am on these pills and I want to go back to my normal self. But I hate the stress of thinking something can go wrong while just using a condom. I really don't know what to do. He wants me to go off of them for the sake of my health, i'd like some opinions please!
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Why don't you just get a different kind of birth control pills? Or A different kind of birth control period. There's woman center's all over the place. They can recommend the best one. Condoms are 95% accurate, and they aren't likely to break , unless the sex is to rough. But if you don't want to worry about that , you should really go to a woman's center and see what kind of birth control they recommend.
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Well me and my girl have been togather for 4 years, theres been good times and bad... but last year cheated on me.. hardcore cheated and ever since i havnt been able to trust her. I conpletely understand that trust is a big factor in a relationship but its just not there. we've been togather since then broken up... got back... and no we are kinda normal. where the problem lies is i sumtime ( not always) cant look at her with out going back to BS memories...i sumtimes feel that i have PTSD but i cant be sure but i guess my question is how can be with soneone how Fucked me over so bad (like cold heartless i dont care anymore bad). i love her but if she does it again i know i cant be with her anymore. And if she has conciously has done it more than 5 time wat r the chance's she will do it again WHAT CAN I DO I'M JUST TIRED... (link)
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If she's done it more than five times. It's time to move on after the second time you should have left her. I've been in a on and off relationship, and we had NO trust. He cheated on me twice. No matter what you do you are always gonna think of it. She's gonna keep hurting you. A relationship with no trust is really stressful and painful. Move on. Try to stay friends or at least end it in good terms. But it'd be best if you ended the relationship. After two or more times and no trust, usually it goes down the drain.
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