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I am a 29 year old married woman with three kids. I just found out that I am pregnant and my husband and I have agreed that I would have an abortion because we couldn't afford to have another child. We are already struggling to raise our three kids. I am so confused and depressed right now. I am scheduled to have my abortion next week though. If I continue with this pregnancy that means I would have to stop working and money is really tight right now. We are actually living pay check to pay check right now. The other side of me wanted to continue having this child. And it really hurts me so that I have to do this. My family and his family would be so dissappointed if they learned I'm preganant and I doubt that they would be willing to help. If you were in my shoes, would you do the same thing? Am I wrong in doing this? (link)
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i have just found myuself in the same boat as u and i know how had this is .... but u r doing the right thing!
i think of how much my kids would miss out on if we bring another child into our family and i know that my youngest wouldnt like to have her mummy taken away from her by another baby .
i also think of how mamy years i have put my own life on hold to raise the children and now they r getting older i am starting to find me again under this woman called "mum".
i always said that if i found myself in this way again after my youngest was born this is what i would do and as far as i can see no matter how much the idea of having a baby may apill this is the only answer for my family to have a deasent way of life both money wise and the fact that i dont think i could cope with another child .
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