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I am a down to earth mother of three. I can tell it straight and still be nice about it.
Gender: Female
Age: 28
Member Since: July 10, 2007
Answers: 4
Last Update: July 10, 2007
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i got my ear 2nd pierced and the 2nd hole is right above the first one the first one on the bottom part of my ear. i got it pierced like 2 or 3 months ago, and it started bleeding a few days ago, so i took the earrings out, and i hadnt changed the earrings at all or taken them out before then. so i took it out and it was bleeding, so i left it out for a few days, and i tried putting them black but it started bleeding again. its been a couple of days since i had them out, and do you think the hole will close up? what should i do and whats wrong with it? (link)
i agree, put it in and let it scab but keep it clean. I used alcohol for mine, it burns but it keeps it clean.


I was wondering how much Danvers MA or Beverly Ma hopsital charges for people who go in to be evaluated for cutting.

This would be without insurance.
Any answers would be appreciated. (link)
I don't know what they will charge, but you are going for help and that is good. If i were cutting i wouldn't let the bill bother me, i would let them bill me. I have had freinds with selfinflicting problems. If you are at the point of getting help, go for it and don't worry.


theres this girl that i think i like but never talked to and i want to get to know her better but dont know how to talk to her like i need advice how to become a conversation starter. I'm not very good at thinking of stuff on he top of my head. HELP!!! (link)
In my opinion, people put way too much time into what they will say. Many lose their oportunity. I have never had any problems with getting people i like because i am myself. Not beautiful or skinny, just me. My advice is to just go up to her and say hi. Be like "Hi so and so, im whatever, what is your name?" or " Hey, nice day huh?" something. Be you. If she likes you she will answer back.


what do you do when you realize you don't love your boyfriend?

this sounds horrible but im so lost
my boyfriend is so completely in love with me but i dnt feel anything for him... at all

i used to but it's been 6 months and he's lied to me so many times i just get disgusted by him now

and we've broken up 4 times and everytime lasted about a week then its back because he apologizes real well and promises to be better, it really destroys him when we break up and i never want to hurt him. breaking up never works, we always get back together! we were best friends for about a year before we ever started dating so i care for him but i don't love him, im sure of it.

i talk to him, he doesnt get it. the thing is we are so perfect for eachother but i don't feel it with him.
can i make myself love him? (link)
do not stay in a relationship only because the other person seems to need you. This will only be at your expense and misery. Besides the type that get weird whenyou leave and are needy may become stalkers or abusive. If you really feel you must stay for his feelings then, I would wait until the next time he messes up and break it off. And then stay broke up.

Love is natural, you can not make it.




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