Member Since: July 25, 2011
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Last Update: July 25, 2011
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I have a really big crush on this guy I know,
but the problem is one of my really close friends has a huge crush on him too.
She says she has liked him ever since she first saw him
but i have only started liking him two,three maybe four months ago.
Recently i have told her i like him too after telling her to go for it as a good friend
should do but she was upset that i liked him
so instead of saying i liked him a lot i only said i like him a little bit to comfort her,
she does not know i like him a big amount
and will be upset if i tell her this.
He and i are close friends and hang out alot but i am not sure if he has feelings for me.
If she knows i like him this much and i tell him how i feel and he like me back,
she will hate me and think i am stealing him, if he ever asks me out
i would say yes before asking her because i dont like to be mean by turning people down,
but then she would surely hate me but i would tell her he asked me
and see if she was ok.
She says before i ask him out or tell him how i feel i should consult with her
but she wouldn't consult with me because she thinks she likes him more then i do. (link)
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I ve gone through the samething. i regret what I did.right now it may not sound good but later in life at some point you will realize.friends over guys anyday girl.there are many guys going to come and go in and out of your life.hurting your friend or spoiling your friendship with her because of this guy who is someday not going to be there for you is stupid.your friend will be there for you always.friends are forever.I liked this guy my bestfriend liked and the guy liked me back.my friend killed her feelings and never showed me how bad she felt watching us together and i was with the guy always.after sometime this guy stops liking me because you know we grew up had our own things to do.so he left me dated another chick.and when I looked behind I saw I left my friend far behind with no care.I so regret it.its just a crush.not your prince charming.n if he's d one for you then you will be with him someday.right now just be a nice person and think about how is it going to affect your friend and you after he gets out of your life.:) there are many other guys..be happy and keep people around who matter to you happy.
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