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Okay, well i have this bad habit to get REALLY jealous REALLY easily. But like, i cant even help myself. Cause ive never been this jealous before. Like, any other past boyfriends ive had i didnt even care, but now my boyfriend that we are REALLY serious about each other, i get REALLY jealous. Like, if i see him looking at another girl, i feel like im not good enough...idk its really bad. And if he talks to another girl, idk i just fell like i dont matter? I do not know what the heck is wrong with me, but i try to stop myself cause ive talked to him about it and he saif that theres nothing to worry about, cause he only cares about me, and i definatly believe him i just keep thinking like that. But one of his ex-girlfriends i dont like, and becuase he told me what he did to her, but we were talking about that stuff, and now whenever i see her, and hes with me i just picture him doing that to her, and its horrible. I really think i have a serious issue with being jealous. I dont kmnow but all i know is i just needed some advice PRONTO so i can
try to stop doing this. help PLEASE! :( (link)
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Jealousy is a very tricky thing, but if this happens to you in all of your relationships, its definitely a problem that you have. Try thinking about your life (and even back to your childhood)about a time when something you had was taken from you, or when someone lied to you and it hurt you really bad. This jealousy is probably actually a trust issue. Once you have realized where your jealousy comes from and what causes it, you can then concentrate on keeping it in control and hopefully get rid of it. But if your boyfriend is a good man, and he's not actually cheating on you, you should make a conscience effort to trust him. When you feel jealous urges come over you, stop whatever you are doing and tell yourself that this feelings are superficial and invalid! Take a deep breath and move on with your day. The most important part is to try not to dwell on the jealous feelings because that will result in you being angry and feeling like there is something wrong with yourself for feeling that way. For more info. on self love and building your self esteem, visit my blog www.smoothdivaj.blogspot.com- Good Luck!
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