Member Since: December 27, 2012
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Last Update: December 27, 2012
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Well, I feel like I have no real friends. I do have this one friend ''fernanda'', we go out and have fun and laugh and stuff, but that's about it. I have tons of friends on facebook, but I don't know most of them in person, all I see are pictures of them having a good time together and just...happy. Something I haven't been for a very long time, see, I'm very insecure...sometimes I feel like I'm just not worth it, and well my story is much longer than what most of you would be willing to read, so let me just cut to the chase and ask you guys...what should I do? I'm not even sure what I'm asking here, it's christmas and I'm looking at all these pictures on facebook of people having fun with their friends, and I'm here at home, nobody called me, nobody cares about me...sometimes I feel jealous of these people, I wish I could be with them and have what they have...happiness, fun, friends... I think I'm a pathetic loser...sometimes I think I don't deserve love, or friends, or any of that for some reason, or maybe my personality just sucks. I'm interested in things like philosophy, history, languages and all that...I just can never find someone to talk with me about that, but at this point I don't care...I just wish I had friends. What should I do? I feel very sad and often cry a lot cuz I think my teenage is passing by and I'm not enjoying it...life is passing by and I can't move on because I feel like a part of it is missing, like something I never had...and maybe never will. (link)
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No matter how bad you feel, remember hurting yourself is never the answer. Furthermore if you truly want to change the way you feel about yourself only you can cause that change to happen. Go out, no matter if your alone, or with someone, it may feel awkward at first but you cant change your current situation unless you do something differently. Try going to a Church, talk to a minister, or if your not religious go vulunteer at a food bank or somewhere else, helping others will help you in the process. My last bit of advice is that, no matter how alone or unhappy you are, there are others struggling just like you. You are never alone in this world, there are people who want to change in the same ways you want to, there is some one there for you who wants help just as much as you do.
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