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Im a female who is 18 and I have been dating my boyfriend for more than a year now and for the last 5 or so months the topic of his band going on tour has been a heated disscussion that usually ends up in me being upset with him and him not understanding why i can't just be happy for him. The thing is, I AM happy for him, im so proud of what he has accomplished and that he will have an opportunity like this. But he needs to understand that I may not be jumping for joy immediately when i hear that he will be leaving for a month, even possibly more. Whenever he brings the topic up all he says is how exciting it will be and how he can't wait, and i sit there thinking about how much ill miss him and if he even will miss me half as much as i will, because he sure as hell doesn't express it. It's hard for me to talk to him about it without sounding selfish, so after the many arguements with the same outcome, i just try and not show my emotion about it, even though it does slip up from time to time. How exactly will I come around to being content with this situation? How on earth can we make this work? I feel like Im going to be the one sitting at home missing him as he is out there having the time of his life and wont have time to care about anyone at home. (link)
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i'm in the same situation right now.. my boyfriend has been on tour for about 2 months now and i'm going through the same thing. so i have a question, how did you all work it out/ or not?
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