Member Since: June 24, 2008
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Last Update: June 24, 2008
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So the past couple days, I haven't been hungry, so I haven't been eating. Like I've had a piece of bread a day for like 3 days, and last night at like 11 I had a cookie. And when I think I'm hungry, I just get a drink and then I get wicked full, and I don't eat. I don't know if I'm sick.. because I feel fine and I don't know if this is good or bad for me. Like I've heard if you don't eat, you get fatter, and then I've heard you get skinnier. I DON'T have an eating disorder. I'm happy with my weight for the most part. So my questions are, is this good or bad for me?, will i lose/gain weight?, and am I sick? (link)
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It seems your very confused about your dieting ?
its understandable that you are not hungry so you are not eating however this is a very bad idea you have heard many rumors about what will happen if you dont eat but heres what it is.
When you eat you fill your body with energy like you fill a car with petrol if a car doesnt have petrol it will not work like the body, the body will not funtion properly without a steady diet the thing is since you havnt been eating for a while your body has got used to the fact that you are not eating, so as soon as you start eating again you weight might go up abit but you can control it by eating your main meals and not many fatty foods eat plenty of fruit and veg and try and exercise as much as you can because when your diet is back to normal you need to make sure that if you eat allot you need to exercise it off or it will turn into fat. REMEMBER - you need fat in you to keep you warm and you need sugar to keep you energised so its ok to have a bar of chocolate now and again.
hope i helped x
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Sorry this is so epic!
Last year, my ex (after about 6 months), who I REALLY liked, moved away. We were going to stay together (wasn't THAT far) but he cheated on me and then dumped me. :|
REALLY soon after that I started going out with my current boyfriend. If I'm honest I almost went into it thinking it would be a rebound thing, but it is now 8 months later. I've been really happy the whole time.
Well, on Friday, me and a group of people including my current boyfriend went to this party. My boyfriend got really drunk and the girl who's house it was told me that he was gonna get kicked out if he didn't sort himself out. I told this to him and he blatantly lied to me saying he hadn't even drank since he'd got in - I'd given him drinks!! I got really annoyed and walked away. About five minutes later, I went back to find him - and couldn't anywhere. He'd left, but hadn't told me he was going, and had switched his phone off, and now I had no way to get home as he was going to walk me. I got very upset and started crying - bear in mind I wasn't sober myself!
Then, of all people to come and hug me, it was my ex. I literally hadn't seen him since the day he'd originally left and hadn't expected it at all so I was really thrown. He'd moved back - and said he'd take me home. On the way, we sat and talked for ages, and he went on apologising for what he did and said he'd been feeling awful about it the whole time. We talked for ages about the stuff we have in common that I don't have with my current boyfriend, and then it started gtting v personal- we were holding hands and cuddling up, and then he kissed my forehead. Warning signals started going off so I said that I'd better leave now, so I didn't actually cheat. Before I left he told me that he really missed me and that no girl in his uni compared to me.
Since then I've been feeling really confused. I love my current boyfriend, but over the past couple of days I've had strong feelings for my ex. As I hadn't seen him since I was able to push him out of my mind and I don't think I've ever really got over it. Obviously the right thing to do is stay with my current boyfriend and forget about this, but I think that's easier said than done, especially as I'll be seeing my ex loads over the summer as we live really close. Anyone got any advice?
Thanks! (link)
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Well Hunny,
it seems that your ex does really like you and you need to think to yourself is your current boyfriend always acting like he did or was it just some thing he said at the time of the party coz he had abit to drink?
if your current bf is always like this maybe you should consider your relationship. because i think i could see something really nice between you and you ex but you have to make sure hes telling the truth about being sorry for cheating on you. i think its wrong of you ex to make a move on you knowing you have a boyfriend but maybe he just couldnt help it :/ think about it babe ; )x
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