Member Since: September 17, 2010
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Last Update: September 17, 2010
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I'm shaky and feeling sick. I've been a little perv and I watched porn. A year ago I used to watch a lot of it. I went on a site and had cyber sex a few times.
I feel like a worthless skank and I take back everything I did.
What I did was ridiculously wrong. I'm 14!!
The question is, are my parents going to find out about my mistakes? I erased the history on everything I've ever done on the computer, but is that enough? What else can I do to erase it? I want these awful teenage mistakes behind me so I can move on and never do anything like this again.
Please be honest, but don't be too harsh. I'm already being terribly hard on myself for getting into porn. I'm not a bad person, I'm just being a curious teenager. But I think I got too curious, and I watched a lot.
Trust me, I won't be doing anything like this ever again. I can see how wrong and gross it is.
I'm making myself sick. Please help settle my nerves so I can move on from my terrible mistake!!!!!!!!! I beg you!!!!! (link)
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Granted 14 is young for sex. You have not developed mentally enough to understand the far-reaching affects.
However, like others said... you are young and capable of mistakes (like all of us humans)
My advice:
stop having sex until you are SERIOUS about your partner (meaning you could marry them if needed)
forgive yourself
focus on things that 14 years are supposed to be doing!
if it gets too hard, talk with your parents. (but realize you did something serious and there might some consequences)
"discipline yourself or be disciplined by the world" is what i tell my kids. I love them but i cannot protect them 100% of the time. THEY need to use good judgement or face the consequences.
do your best to avoid the porn and again focus on the productive things
god blesses us all and he forgives us all when we ask.
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