Member Since: June 9, 2008
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Last Update: June 9, 2008
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16/f. somewhat fair skinned, not too white but not too tan. im going to a workout place/tanning place to the tanning beds for my first time. i signed up for 30 days so i can go as much as i want, but like only once a day. my mom told me start off with like 5 minutes for the first few days, wear goggles..but anyone else have any tips..so i dont burn, so i get an even tan, so i dont have streaks..stuff like that? =] also, would you suggest wearing a swimming suit the first time? the people there said they will help me the first time, but it isnt like most salons, you can just walk in and sign in and go straight in by yourself. any tips are greatly appreciated!
and please, if you dont agree with tanning beds, dont answer. and dont tell me im gonna get cancer. im smart and am only doing it for a month =] (link)
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i agree with the other person, don't wear anything and you'll have no tanlines. i think you can only get streaks with a spray tan ,lol. i've been going to the tanning bed for more than a month, and i use a turbo bed (really powerful). i still don't do anymore thna 10 minutes. i started off at six. i get burned almost every time, lol. but it goes away after a day and turns into a tan. i think a tanning bed is better than Uv rays from the sun.
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is there a website for guys or emo people to just talk about things about life and relatations thanks xp (link)
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i know alot of emo/scene people that go to this chat website: avatarpalace.com
you might have to install palace 32 or get phblabs ... go to the download section at avatarpalace.com
heres some of my friends on there:
me.ish.josh
darla
sam
meg
kendra
.they all hang out together if you find one, you'll find the rest of them.
i usually go under the name roccs, but i don't get on anymore.
the site is fun. and always a great place to talk to people, and creating avs is fun.. to me, it's for both genders, but you could just hang out with guys.
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My mom and I have had issues for a long time and I dont think she understands it at all. Tonight she was talking to me with her sister and it just agravates me so much that they both jump down my throat when they don't understand me at all and still try to put their advice in. I would love to tell my mother everything, but it's just so hard. She thinks my "bad mood" is from a new high school Im at or hormones.
She drinks (not to the level of an alcholic, but I would perfer she drank less) and makes me promises but doesn't remember them the next day.
My brother is autistic and can function normally and many people wouldn't be able to tell he was challenged, but it's still been a struggle for her. I understand and I help, but it's put me on the back burner. If I have a problem, it seems petty and selfish compared to him. She's extra sensitive to him.
She suffers from a form of depression and hasn't told me about it. I found out by looking at her pill bottles. Two years ago before she was diagnosed she would lash out at me for no reason, and it hurt so much. I built up a wall and became just as nasty and defensive. It's stuck. Im afraid to tell her things that anger her, and if she insults me I return the favor. It's become instinct and she thinks Im a nasty bitch. Im not at all what she sees me as and I just want her to understand that I want her to love me and be proud of me!
I just don't know how to tell her. I can't get her attention. I talk to her and I become closed in and defensive. I can't handle her being mad at me, I can't handle confrontation.
I want her to understand how she hurts me and how much I love her. How can I do this? (link)
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it'll probably be alot easier to just write her a letter explaining what you feel. and don't at all be offensive, if she's drinking or on pills, she may take things the wrong way. just explain exactly what happened. if you need any other help with mother issues, ask me because i've been through tons of family therapy.
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i'm 14 years old, not a slut at all,
i have a little belly,
and i want to get my belly button peirced, because it makes people look skinnyer, but my mom won't let me till i'm 16.
anyone have any ideas, or ways i can pursuade my mom into letting me get it peirced? (link)
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my mom said no when i asked her this when i was 12, but then my cousin got hers pierced at 14 and talked to my mom about it. then my mom said i could get mine done at 14. so maybe try finding someone in your family who has their bellybutton pierced or a friend that your mom likes and that had their bellybutton pierced at your age. and ask them to persuade your mom, it would help if they looked like a good influence[not slutty]. and have that person describe how bad it hurt, what thier mom said about it, and stuff that'll persuade. when i turned 14, i changed my mind about getting it done, and i'm 16 now. lol.
you know if you got pregnant, there will be a huge hole stretched out in your belly button. eww.
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i was wondering, where could you download photoshop for free? i would buy it if i had the money, but apparently my family is you know.. yeahh.. kind of poor.. >. (link)
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i have the same problem, lol.
i don't know any places to get it free legally.
but you should try a 30 day trial of coral photoshop, it's pretty good.
here's a link:
http://www.corel.com/servlet/Satellite/us/en/Product/1185293041793
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