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I just got married a month ago and I'm a virgin. My husband and I have been trying to have sex, but we can't. I think I might have vaginismus, maybe.

What I do know for sure is that I want to have sex, I want to consummate my marriage..I just can't.

we'll be lying together, hugging, kissing, and cuddling and then when it comes to him trying to go in, i tense up. i get really nervous and i can feel my muscles tensing up...but no matter how much i try to relax them i can't. and the idea of it hurting the first time is not helping. and i just need help and suggestions on what i should do.

has anyone else had this problem??

have you tryed to think of something else that makes you happy?? because thats what i had to do when i had that problem

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