Member Since: January 24, 2005
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Last Update: January 24, 2005
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I am 41 year old male, at 18 I married my best friends sister who had been date raped at 16 (not by me) and was pregnant. I married her and raised the child as my own. We took in 2 foster children that we later adopted because she could not have any more. Although I was never in romantic love with her we had a good life and wonderful family. 5 years ago she had to have a hysterectomy and died for several minuets they revived her but she has never came back to "herself" I am now more of her caretaker. There is no sex, romance or even adult discussion. I can't leave her nor want to for the fact it wouldnt be right to leave her because of an illness that is not her fault.
I try to release my stress in the gym and other ways and have developed a very good physical appearance and have many friends, but Im so very lonley. I am afraid to have an affair, it wouldnt be right to either woman, but I so long for the touch, caress and conversation with a woman. I dont know where to turn. Whats your Advice?
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I really do not mean to be rude by saying this but, you married this woman and it was a most honorable thing, too. You also need to think of what your wife wold do if this happened to you. Would she leave you to take care of the kids? Or, would she stay and take care of you til you or her died. I'm not saying leave her, and I'm not saying stay, but it is a good thing to put in perspective.
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