Member Since: August 15, 2005
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Last Update: August 15, 2005
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Sorry it's so long, I just desparately need help. I e-mailed my crush at the start of June about how I felt about her (yes, its me again) and she said she liked me as a friend. It was actually kind of funny, every other word was "sorry." So, anyways, I've been thinking about her ever since. If you don't know what I mean, look up the lyrics to "The Longest Time" by Billy Joel, it perfectly describes me. Well, I recently e-mailed her again saying that I just can't stop thinking about her, and how right she feels to me. A week later, after a lot of stress that I'd been through, she replied that she had been away for a while with no internet access, and that she had been thinking about me the whole time, and she didn't know if what she had previously said was true. However, she had to clear up her current relationship, as it's already pretty much over, and then once she's done with it, she'll update me again. And so I'm really happy, because why shouldn't I be? I've been thinking about her non-stop for months! But then I find my eyes tearing, and I'm still practically crying right now, fifteen minutes later! Why is this? Because I just found out she's in another relationship? Couldn't be that, because she said that relationship is practically done for! Is it tears of joy? Doesn't feel like it.
Then there's my parents. I told my dad about it last night, and he acted like it was no big deal. Ya know why? You see, I'm a really late developer, so my voice hasn't changed yet, and because of that, he doesn't think it's very serious, but I know it is!
Ah crap, I'm seriously crying now, and I don't even know why! Please, Advicenators, help me fast! (Also tips on first dates are welcomed and encouraged!) (link)
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Want to win her back....do the opposite you are doing now, seriously my young friend woman/girls are not attracted to wussies.
You have to be strong for yourself, woman/girls can smell neediness from a mile away and they will run away.
Take a look in the mirror, its time to step up to the plate.
Change the way you think about her, imagine what could be not the painful stuff.....now set a plan in motion.
Talk her as a friend, treat her like a bratty sister, joke with her, flirt. She will see you in a diffrent light, whatever you do, don't go all wussie. let her talk about feelings first.
If you are out with her, treat her well and with respect.
You can do this, she needs to feel you are a challenge to her!
Be patient!
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