Member Since: August 20, 2012
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Last Update: August 20, 2012
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I don't have the guts to talk to any one close about this because honestly I don't know what to say. My fear is being alone. I can't find a guy that I could actually see being in a relationship with. I'm 15 and I know I have plenty of time to find someone, but the fact that I can't let go of is what if I'll end up being alone? I can't keep myself from being in a relationship. I run away from the guy after a while. It really bothers me and I don't know what to do. I'm self concious but i don't think that's the problem. It gets me really upset to the point where I think I'm honestly not worth it. I start to like a guy but I shut him out of my life after. I'm begining to think that it's not the guy anymore it's me. Maybe I'm just not girlfriend material. What do I do? (link)
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Hi,I'm sixteen, and I used to have the same exact problem as you. I was always looking for a relationship. And when I got into Highschool, all my friends were getting boyfriends. I was always scared, and worried that I wouldnt be able to find someone like my friends did. I would have boyfriends, but I would always push them away in someways, after awhile, I realized that it wasnt the guy that I was pushing away, it was me. I had to take the time to realize, that I'm not ready for a relationship. I decided to wait. I stopped looking for a guy, and I started letting guys come to me. Before I knew it, I finally found the boy, which has been my boyfriend now for almost 5 months. So just wait, let love find you. Cause I promise you, youre worth it, and the wait will be worth it too. Don't rush into anything, and just keep an open mind, you'll find someone, goodluck! :)
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