Gender: Female
Age: 20
Member Since: April 22, 2009
Answers: 3
Last Update: April 23, 2009
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i'm a female who is 20 and my two best friends i talk about in this are both 20 and gay.
About six months ago, i was having a HUGE fight with my best friend. The next day I asked my other best friend if I could come and stay the night because i was just emotionally a wreck and he knew the whole entire story. He said yes, so after he got off work at 11 i went down to stay with him. He's gay and has been my best friend for about a year and a half now. my other best friend (the one i was fighting with) is gay also.
anyway, i went to his house which isn't unusual, considering i'd stayed at his house a million times before. he has a little twin size bed and we usually cuddle in it and go to sleep. well, we were laying there and i was facing the wall and he was facing the same way with his arm around me, again, not unusual. being best friends, we're always grabby and joking all the time, usually with other friends. I'd seen his, he'd seen my breasts but not the other region. so we're laying there and then he starts putting his hand in my underwear trying to feel it and saying he wants to touch it...blah blah. i'm laughing and saying no..
and then finally, idk why, but i decided to let him. at first it was just kind of experimentory, but then he started really getting into it. so he ended up "doing things" to me down there for about an hour. it was really intimate with kissing...etc.
we've talked about it and he has told me time and time again that he honestly cannot even answer for himself why it progressed the way it did.
i think maybe there is something about it that he's not saying. there has to be a REASON right?
any advice is GREATLY appreciated. (link)
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He wrote me a letter before we had our "discussion" about it. He said he didn't feel weird or disgusted about anything bt us. He said that he has no sexual interest in women what-so-ever even though he "does have STRONG feelings for me and if ever that sort of thing would ever take place with a woman he would want it to be me because there is a level of comfort, trust, and love that he has not shared and chances are won't share with another female.". I understand us loving eachother, and I mean REALLY loving eachother. I just don't know what to make of it (what happened) sometimes...
When we talked, he said things like, "well obviously, we BOTH enjoyed it.". I know he hates talking about, or I suspect he does and it happened ab 6 months ago...so idk. I just wish I could get a straight answer--no pun intended.
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ok a few days ago someone was asking about a song...
and someone gave an answer to a website.
you type in lyrics to a song and itll find the song your on about...
anyone know the website... or one simalar =D
thanks!
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i think you can just type in lyrics to google and it will bring up songs..
idk if that's what you're really looking for though.
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how come gay guys are so nice to us girls? (link)
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Number one: they ARE girls. well most of them. :) this was said before, but they enjoy most of the same things we do. they love shopping, they love doing hair, they love men, they love gossiping, they love they can be themselves with girls. when gay men have other "males" as friends, this most of the time creates controversy or "love interests" which can be bad in gay men relationships. take it from me, if i don't know what I'm talking about then i have something wrong with me. My best friends are all gay. I have Cody, Kris, Nathan, Holdan, Caleb.... and they truly ARE my best friends. Cody & I are pretty inseperable. Cody and I shop together, gossip together, do eachother's hair. They are the PERFECT girlfriends because their really isn't much competition between you and your gay best friend like there might be between you and say another girl who is your best girlfriend. idk why but i tend to bond wayyy better with gay men than i do with women.
number two: women are icons to gay men ;) but seriously...
hope that helps :]
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