Member Since: January 26, 2013 Answers: 1 Last Update: January 27, 2013 Visitors: 183
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I seem to be having an issue lately.
I have feelings for three girls. I know that neither of them would date me.
The first one I've known for over 10 years and we dated for a while, but she determined that we weren't good enough for each other to be in a relationship with each other. I still have feelings for this girl but she doesn't have feelings for me. I'm guessing that this could be because she is a different religion then I am and the fact that I'm not doing much with my life, or maybe something else, but I know she won't date me.
The next two girls are co workers of mine. Both are a bit young for me. They are both around 18/19 years old and I am 27. One of the girls does smoke which is a turn off and also has a kid. While smoking is a turn off for me, I began to wonder some things such as if she could somehow try to get rid of smoking breath so that we could kiss. Do you think that's possible? Also, I generally will not date anyone with kids, because of the fact that often there can be drama involved and that can be a problem for a relationship. I would maybe date someone who has a kid as long as long as there is no drama involved between the girl I would date, the kids father and myself. The one advantage of dating a girl with a kid or kids will give me the ability to determine if I would ever be able to have my own kids or not.
Now I have not told any of these girls about how I feel mainly because I don't want to lose my friendship to the one and I would worry about how we would get along at work with the other two. I'm wondering, should I tell them how I feel or not? Why or why not? (link)
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I suggest that you DO NOT try to approach the girls you work with. Work is where you earn your paycheck so don't do anything that could jeopardize that.
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