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Genie
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hey pumpkin. i need to ask you a question and I hope you can help.. well lets see im having alot of problems in my life right now and lots of stuff are going wrong. i want to stay strong and keep everyone proud of me and not dissapoint them by doing something stupid if you know what i mean.. but anyways i need to know how to reach out to my family and ask them for help when i need it or how to learn to get help.. i want help and i need it.. but its hard for me cause im shy about my feelings.. i want to be able to ask for help as easy as i can give help.. i dont know if u understand what i mean. i hope you do.. anyways another question i have is how do i talk to my friend and help her stop with her cutting problem cause i cant stand to see her hurt herself. well. laters.. Eugenia (link)
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hey babygirl, ok well here i go. i hope i can help you. yes, i know what you mean. ok, one way to reach out to your family is to ask them to sit down with you so you can share and express your feelings to what is going on. maybe cry a little to show them how bad they make you feel when they do things like that. tell them, "this is how you make me feel when yall do stuff like that. is this how you wan't me to feel? do you want me to feel like yall don't give a darn about me? do you want me to feel so bad that it seems like no one in the world gives a care about me?". i'll try helping you as best as i can. i know its hard for you because ur shy. all i can say about that is practice:)yes, i understand what you mean. uhmm, about that question, just get ur friend to sit down with her parents and talk. talk with them too. tell them what she's been doing. and let her tell them why and how she feels. and also, make sure she has nothing she can cut herself with. if she does and won't give it to you, than tell someone to help you get it away from her. i hope this helps. if it doesn't then know its only my first time. anyways, i hope it helps. i g2g, bye baby. love, Randall
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