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hi, im eric and im 18

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what do you mean he doesnt really get wet? dont all guy like precum and stuff when you give them a hj?? and doesnt the guy jizz?? if he doesnt get wet, how do i know when to stop?? sry if im being annoying! i dont mean to! =(

yes all guys precum, but sometimes it isnt really noticable. and yes the guy does jizz. and you know when to stop by when he fully cums. you just have to be patient.

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i had sex with my now ex g/f who is 16/f we're in the same grade and all but now i have a new g/f she is 15/f and shes a grade lower than me and we've been dating for a month now, but i told her i never had sex. i wish i didnt have sex with me ex. it was a big mistake and now my g/f found out that i had sex and she wont talk to me. shes so mad. now my ex g/f is getting involved and talking to my g/f telling her what we did and everything. what can i do to fix this???? please help me!!!! i dont want to loose my g/f over sex i regret having!!!

well, either way you lied to your new girlfriend. it doesnt matter that you regret it. but you should stil have told her. she might have been mad in the beggining but she would have been alot bewtter if you told her and didnt wait for her to find out. there might not really be anything to do to fix this other then just give her time and tell her how much she means to you and that youre sorry. you juyst have to try and ride this out. good luck

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i did what you said to do and i went up and down on my boyfriend for a hj BUTttt i was doing it for what felt like 10 minutes or more and he wasnt getting wet or anything like that... did i do something wrong? should we be using lube or something? and how tight do i hold it when i go up and down? help me!!!!!!!!! i just want to get him to cum!

it could take awhile. you just have to be patient, usually the guy doesnt really get wet. you didnt seem to do anything wrong but you could use lube if you want. you dont have to hold it to tight because it could hurt. but you also dont wanna hold it to loose. just take your time and be patient

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hi. im the girl who asked for the pointers on giving a hanjob and turning the guy on. well, what are some OTHER ways i can turn him on? by things i say and do. and when you say give him a handjob, by saying to go back and forth, do you mean to go up and down ?

haha welll.. you can kiss his neck and rub up against him. you can tell him thaty you love him and you can also take his hand it place it on parts of your body. that always helps! and yes i mean up and down.

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i need a truck. i live in california, which is not that expensive but really good?

the best truck that is cheap is deffinitly a used one. you dont want one that is too expensive. the best company is either ford or chevy. i prefer ford. but if you want a small one a good truck is a ford ranger but you can also get one alittle bigger like the ford f150. most trucks you can find cheap on ebay and you want one with the least amount of miles and that has a good engine.

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how do i kiss?

kissing comes natural, you just have to try and it practice at it. practice makes perfext!

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does it hurt the first time you have sex?
- does it hurt for the girl?
- does it hurt for the guy?
if youve had sex, what position do guys like best? and during sex, fro your experience, if youve had any, what can the girl do to make it better? any comments about sex in general would be terrific! thank you!

i have heard that it hurts the girl the first time you have sex. and yes unfortinutly i have had sex before and it didnt hurt me but i wish i could take it back. so make sure you do it with someone you really love and you wont regret it. there are many types of positions that guys like. some guys like when the girl is laying side by side to them and others like when their girl is sitting on their lap. it all depends on the guy. and what a girl can do to make it better is not just lay there like a dead fish and be pro-active and move around and make some noise.. no guys likes when a girl is quiet because it could show that she isnt enjoying it. and always wear a condom and play it safe!

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I am a female. Me and my boyfriend have been discussing taking the next step in our relationship, and we are both ready. But I was just wondering...what do guys like for a girl to get them turned on? i dont even know how to give a handjob and i have never touched my boyfriends penis! please dont tell me to talk to him about it, because i dont want to. please help? Any pointers?

haha ok dont talk to him about it! uhmm you should touch his penis before you try anything. just play with it alittle bit. guys LOVE that. it comes natually and you just have to put your hand around it and go back and fourth

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what qualities [looks, personality, humor, etc.] do girls have that attract you to them? and any guy? THANKS.

some guys its the girls look. their body. to me the girl has to be cute, with a good personality and a good sense of humor. all guys have different prefrences on what attract them to you.

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my boyfriend doesnt want me talking to guys......why is that? cuz he talks to girls so why am i not aloud to talk to guys?

he is being over protective and probably jealous because he thinks thatyou are going to find some other guy that you think is better after you talk to them. he is being controlling. and it is not fair if he is aloud to talk to other girls and you are not aloud to talk to guys. if he means alot to you then just try and talk to him and tell him how much he means to you and how much he loves you and that you wouldnt leave him for another guy. you're aloud to have guy friends!

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do guys like it when girls touch themselves? does it turn you on or is it unattractive? i hear that most guys get really turned on by it, is that true?

yes, most guys get turned on when girls touch themseleves. others might find it unattractive. but it depoends. if you are touching yourself by watching other guys then no, it does not turn them on. but if you are touching yourself around him then yes it could be attractive and turn them on.

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I am beginning to become sexually active with my boyfriend, and I am just curious as to how I can trim and shave my pubic hair to a man's liking. Are any particular designs more favorable? Long hair? Short hair? No hair? Landing strip? help me!!!! 19/f

if you are becoming sexually active, most guys like when you shave all the pubic hair off. no guy really likes to see long hair down there. some guys get turned on by different ways. i think for the first time you should shave it all and talk to him after and see what he likes. maybe he likes the long hair or landing strip.

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Hey there, I really need your help. my boyfriend asked about the size of his penis compared to my ex, and I kinda answered the wrong way... yes I know I shouldnt have, and also I said it in a harsh way... I think I really hurt him, and Im really really sorry... Is there anything I can do to fix things? He really means a lot to me

well, you probably shouldnt have said that haha. no guys likes to hear that he has a small penis or that your ex boyfriends is bigger. just try and talk to him and tell him that you are sorry and you didnt mean it. and tell him that its big. most guys love hearing that.

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do you have a girlfriend? if you do, what turns you on about her? what made you want to be with her? what does she do to turn you on? what does she wear to turn you on? if you dont have a girlfriend, what turns you on about girls? anything specific? im trying to make this guy in my sociology class like me, and i want to turn him on. im 16 by the way. thank you! any advice would be helpful!

yes i have a girlfriend and we have been together for alittle over 6 months, and what turns me on about her is just how she is, she doersnt have to be wearing anything different and she still turns me on. what made me want to be with her is that she is really beautiful and i wanted a second chance with her after she broke my heart freshman year. it turns me on with many things that she does. even when she hugs and kisses me. it doesnt take much for her to do to turn me on. and many guys are different with their preference of how they want girls to act or wear to turn them on. my girlfriend just has to be herself to turn me on haha. maybe try and talk to him and sit on his lap in class and be flirty with him. that could always help. and just take it step by step

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my crush told me that he likes me! should i ask him out?! or should i wait for him to ask me? im a girl.

talk to him and see what is going on. but i think that you should wait until he asks you out. he should be the man and ask the girl out. so talk to him and wait for him to ask you out

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my boyfriend seems distant lately. why is that??

there could be many different reasons why your boyfriend could be feeling distant. try and talk to him and ask him whats wrong and see if there is anything you can do. i know it sounds rough but maybe he is becoming distant because he isnt sure if he wants to be with you anymore. but i think you should talk to him and see what he is thinking and what is wrong :)

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your a boy so i thought you could help...........................my boyfriend treats me like a queen but im always looking for some other guy and i know i shouldnt. i dont know what to do. i want it to work out with my boyfriend but there are soOoOOoOo many guys and all my friends say to just stay with him because hes always treatin me like really good but i want someone knew but then i dont...........im so confused! help me!!!!! please.

if he treats you reallly well then stay with him. try and give it time and see if you are more attracted to him then other guys. but YOU have to do what you think is right and what you think will make you happy. dont just stay with him because your friends tell you to. you dont want to lead him on and still have feelings for other guys.

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i dont know how to make my girlfriend happy anymore. please help me! she says she wants me to be her prince charming, but i dont know how!! im 16 and shes 14.

you could always suprise her. if she likes gifts then take her out to eat, buy dinner. suprise her with flowers and gifts. but if she isnt materialistic then just tell her all the time you love her and tell her that you think she looks good and make notes on all the reasons you love her. there are many ways that you can make your girlfriend happy. you just have to be creative :)

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do you like peas? i like peas. there good for you! are peas good for you?

no i do not like peas. but yes peas are very good for you

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when is the right time to have sex? should there be foreplay before hand? i want it to be good. im a virgin, but my girlfriend is not.

the right time to have sex is when you are ready and so is the other person or significant other you are having it with. foreplay before hand is always good because it gets you and your partner both in the mood. if you are a virgin and your girlfriend is not, you dont have to rush into things because she isnt a virgin. take your time and do it when you think it is right!

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