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Member Since: May 10, 2008
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i like a beautiful person whom i have never actually met. he is intellectual, independent, has great style, and from what i hear he may never have even had a girlfriend. but something about the way he thinks about life intrigues me ever so much. i spoke to his good friend who told me that he is somewhat withdrawn at times and although many cute girls like him, he wont just settle for a pretty face, he wants something more.
and i am the same way as this guy. i like to be me, and dont like to feel smothered, i like to read books and listen to music and find some meaning to life. but my best friend is convinced that he is her soul mate although they have never met. hes like the perfect guy for her appearance wise and she likes the way his personality is. she does not know that i like him, because i dont want this to turn into some kind of friend competition. well the point is i have to talk to this guy and get to know him and then introduce them, lol. i dont really mind, i mean i want her to have him because i dont need a boyfriend but she really likes him a lot. i see him at a certain time of day. how do i introduce myself? do i just say hey whats up? haha. thanx =]
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A few years ago my best friend and I liked the same person. They had a lot of common classes so she promised to talk to him for me. I never knew that the whole time she liked him and she eventually got to know him and dated him instead of helping me do that. I felt played like a total fool.

You have to stop liking this guy. It will take time and if you decide to help your friend, you should introduce her to the guy's friend that you talked to. You can make this go faster by just going up to the guy and later introducing your friend when all three of you are together.




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