Member Since: July 28, 2013 Answers: 1 Last Update: July 28, 2013 Visitors: 214
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Hey y'all. I'm 20/f and I have been living with my boyfriend happily for 2 years. I am incredibly attracted to him sexually and would never ever cheat on him. There are some nights that I will have sex dreams about him while he's sleeping right next to me.
But, last night and the night before I had dreams about 2 of my coworkers-one of whom is incredibly attractive (but I am not actually attracted to) and the other has an incredible gentle personality, but I would never pursue. At work, I spend most of my time with the two of them, so I guess it would make sense that they make an appearance in my dreams, but these dreams were both sexual. The first dream I had was with my kind, caring coworker. He confided in me about some dark things, which led to us kissing, which led to sex. When I woke up, I felt guilty and could barely look at my boyfriend. The second one (last night) was with the good-looking coworker. He snuck into my room while my boyfriend was in the shower, and just got on top of me without a single word. Both of these dreams are confusing and uninvited and make me feel like a horrible girlfriend. What do these dreams mean and what can I do to stop them? (link)
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Maybe deep down in your subconscious you may be attracted to your co-workers? Fantasising about someone other than your boyfriend is normal, but if it is bothering you maybe you should stay clear of these people to avoid any temptation or talk to your boyfriend, although this may cause him to become jealous or paranoid. If you are 100% certain you would never cheat then just roll with the punches, enjoy your saucy sex dreams or spice up your relationship in the bedroom. Something new and exciting may take your mind off your co-workers.
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