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ok my friend..we'll call her shay..thinx its her fault that my friend 'dropped me' to go with her to homecoming..how can i make her realize its not her fault? (link)
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well, she myte feel bad because well did u like him? if you did then she feels bad because she is ur friend. And if she likes him she myte feel bad because she myte feel like she is kinda too flirty or acts stuck up! just talk to her she will understand. and listen to her side of the story also so ya'll can get everythin worked out. As for boys, do not le em get in the middle or ur friendship because they come and they go!
hope i helped! ps tell ur friends to ryte to me!
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May 17, 2004, ((st. patricks day)) one of my best friends committed suicide. She was 13 years old. She was born on September 11, 1990. Her name was Alyssa, and she was walking to school late and she was walking on the tracks. She heard the train coming and she turned around, put her hood up, and gave the thumbs up sign to the conductor. He couldn't stop the train. Alyssa got hit and died. A month later the investigators claimed it to be suicide, which everyone already knew. She had tried committing suicide a couple weeks before that, but I had to drag her off the tracks by her hair. I had made her go see the school counselor before that and I guess she still wanted to committ suicide. The night before she was hit, she wrote R.I.P Alyssa on her and her boyfriend's bedroom wall. She killed herself for many reasons, but I only know of how her boyfriend was cheating on her and she was in a gang and family problems. She told me there was more though. I tried so hard to convince her that death wasn't the soulution, but she didn't listen. I did everything I could to help her. Anyway, I know it's long but I thought you needed to know the whole story.
So my problem is, I still haven't been able to cope with it. I cry all the time and nobody seems to understand me. I miss her so much. I've already seen numerous counselors but they haven't helped me much. I just want to know if there's any way that I could start the "healing process" or if it'll just take time. I would appreciate all the help. Thank you so much!
Love, RacheL
((xoRachel))
R.I.P Alyssa Gonzalez.. I miss you so much.
9/11/90 - 3/17/04 (link)
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okay, well i am not n e expert or n e thing but it helps for some ppl to talk bout the person. That is what keeps them alive. I mean my grandpa died w few yrs ago. i no it isn't the same but it hurt for a long time. I was really depressed all the tyme and was kinda off in my own little world. I mean sure after this clams down some and after u are comfortable, u will be doing sumthin and all of the sudden think about your friend and cry. It is human to cry. I always talk about my grandpa! It is what keeps him alive on earth! I hoped i helped
dumblonde2010
Don't cry because its gone, smile because it happened.
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