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20/f

Last night me and my friends were at my apartment drinking. My roommate had her ipod in her speakers and I went to go change the song. I saw that a text had popped up from a girl I didn't know that said "what would your friends think if they saw what I text you?" I know it was wrong, but I was drunk and I was curious who this girl was because my roommate is one of my best friends and I literally know every single one of her friends. I looked at her texts and they were talking using ;) faces and referencing to having hooked up before and hanging out and stuff like that. I was shocked. My friend very recently had sex with a guy and she has made out etc. with a bunch of guys. She always gets really attached to the guys she likes and really jealous when her friends hook up and she complains that she hasn't in so long. I have nothing against gays/lesbians (I actually have a lot of gay friends) I am just very confused about this. I thought I knew her really well. The girl she was texting is also 17 and went to the same high school as my roommate. The 17 year old also has a boyfriend and in their conversation they talked about guys they have hooked up with. I am just confused about what to make of all of this and I want to talk to her about it but I can't do that unless I admit to reading her texts.

She might just be a a little counfused, once I was and I had a boyfriend, and would obviously marry a guy and have a family, you know. But she might just want to experience girls or have a little adventure. It's normal. If you want to talk to her about it and not make it obvious just talk about someone, like a celebrity say " oh she is hot, i would go lesbian for her" but you know joking around or something that brings that topic up and maybe she will spit all that out. or just show her that no matter what you will support her, well if you will. good luck (:

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