Member Since: July 20, 2011
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So, I'm 15
I really don't like the way I look "down there". I've never had sex, but I do masturbate and this is really hard to talk about, because I don't talk about it.
I don't know if it's nothing or what but, something sticks out, outside of my vagina and I really don't know what it is, if it's my clitoris or what.. I'm just scared it's abnormal, I don't want to go to the doctor and be embarrassed..I don't believe I have an std because I'm still a virgin..will some one please help me out here? ://
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Here's the thing: vagina's are weird. In fact, all genitalia are weird! If you haven't had the pleasure of meeting a penis or another vagina yet, then that's probably why you think yours is strange. It's the only one you've come in contact with. And no one's is like anyone else's. There is a huge range for what is deemed normal and you most likely fit well within it. If I were you, I would find a friend who has had a pap smear. If she trusted the doctor who did it, you should go in and have a chat with her. If you don't have someone like that to talk to, you should go to a sex health clinic. Talk to a nurse, that's what those clinics are there for. And don't be shy about going to a clinic, I'm sure it would be a pleasure for someone to lend confidence to a girl like you. Just make sure that your visit is completely confidential and you don't have to worry about anyone finding out. Most importantly, you have to feel good about the way you look "down there". If you're masturbating, you feel good about the way you feel "down there". That's the most important step. But you really need to talk about it because you will presumably want to share an experience with someone someday and you will want to be confident when that happens so you can feel good about it :)
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