Member Since: December 11, 2008
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So, I guess you guys get a lot of questions on here talking about "I hate my parents. I want a life. Rawr" etc, etc. But really, I feel like a total outcast of the family. It's like they don't need me any longer and I'm just a pain in the ass for them and nothing more.
Here's the thing: They hate what I love and I'm not being overdramatic here. I love piercings, tattoos, rock/metal music, vegetarianism, and etc. They are homophobic, racist, and pretty much conservative about everything. They even hate my friends...I mean I'm already banned from my best friend and my best guy friend for stupid reasons. and I don't know. I feel like they don't care about me at all.
I know for sure that I have depression. I've had it since 4th or 5th grade, before I even knew what the word depression and suicide meant. I've told my mom that, but she didn't believe me, which hurt a lot and still does although it has been 4 months since I've told her. My sister who is going to turn 20 in 2 months always tells on me, when I have done nothing to wrong her. And she's like the freaking perfect daughter, which just lowers my self esteem further down the drain. My dad, well he just always sides with my mom and doesn't even care about me unless I show interest in exercising with him. But I don't know. My mom is the hardest on me out of all of them.
This Friday I just started crying as soon as I got home from school because I was really overwhelmed with schoolwork and the audition next day and everything (and reportedly my best friend since 6th grade got high over the summer and we vowed to stay sXe since 8th grade--but my mom doesn't know about that) And I was just really stressed that day and my mom started to scold me saying that if I had practiced the violin over the summer, than I wouldn't be having too much trouble with the audition tomorrow and blah fucking blah. So that hurt me more (again) because I really needed someone at that time and my mom just started to yell at me for crying. Then today, my mom just blew up at me because she was sick of me being a vegetarian and how she hates cooking two different types of food and blah blah blah and she yelled at me, telling me to make my own food from now on. Well, excuse me but I did cook my own food all throughout summer in addition to cooking my parents' when they were constantly phone fighting with relatives. And I never told her that she had to cook for me.
My mom pretty much hates me now. I know it and the feelings never gonna go away. I was thinking today that I had no reason to live and that I had nothing holding me back anymore. I can't see my best friend except every other day at school for like 40min now. My family doesn't need me. I have nothing to live for. I was really close to packing and just leaving the house today, if not kill myself. And I was thinking that only if someone could show and tell me that they needed me, I'd feel like I was a human being that someone noticed was alive. I don't know. I;m not getting any better with the depression and my mom being so against me is hurting me so much.
I can't talk to them. None of them. I've tried so many times in the past but it always ends up with my mom yelling the crap out of me and making me inferior and wrong all the time. I really just gave up. I don't know. I need to know what I'm suppose to do because I'm lost more than ever.
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I am not going to sit here and try to break this down. Your family needs help. You need help. When you start talking shit about killing yourself, and I am going to give you this from a Biblical and christian perspective. The Bible says that God will never put more in your life than you can handle. If you put the thought of suicide in your head, than you are also putting the thought that God has broken His promise and put more crap on your hands than you can handle. Therefore you start to doubt God. I grew up in a chr3istian family and God has put me and my family through the ringer more times than I want to remember. My dad was the greatest Sunday School teacher and dad in the whole world. I turned 13...dad got ex-communicated from the church. I turned 18...dad threw me out on the street for my lack of respect and I never heard from him again. Mom was awesome. But when they split up, she stole me from dad. She later gave me back to him because she could not handle me. My half brother was and to this day still is hateful and no matter how much I love him, we will never see eye to eye. My little bro and I have learned to get along with each other and have no problems at all. My step siblings I only had for a brief moment. Then my life problems really broke my relationship with them. I have been through 2 amilies and now am with family # 3 and I am 20 years old. Family is important, but if your family is not treating you right, there is something wrong. My dad threw me out because of my lack of respect. I respected him until I saw no incoming respect and then I quit giving. When he saw that, he threw me out with nothing but the clothes on my back. I have come to realize that I caused a lot of my families problems. I have also realized that I need to take a step back and think about a lot of other things. I finally gave my life and my will over to the care of God as I understood Him. If you have never thought of church, try to go. Talk to a pastor about your problems. They will pray with you and for you, but the prayers will really work if you are praying for yourself. I prayed for myself and now I have come to accept Jesus as my LORD and Savior and have been baptized and now I hold a place in Heaven with Him when I die. Just think abiut it for a bit. You talk about Hell on Earth, what about hell in hell?????
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I really like this guy (we are H.S. Seniors) and we go to the same church. At our church we have a band. After school I texted him and told him I was thinking about joining, but my mom works most saturdays (he plays keyboard). He told me to just try to come. I told him that I would but my mom works most saturdays. Then he told me to just try to come this saturday. I told him that My mom can't pick me up til 6 (practice is over at 3:30) and he told me to just stay til 6. Everytime I ask him why he wanted me to join, he always, somehow, avoids the question. There are times when I think that he really likes me, but he doesn't text ppl first and he is very forgetful.(He wants me to help him become unlazy and non forgetful) There are times when he says random things to me, i think to just talk to me. I find him always looking at me and he smiles a lot. When we are around other ppl, we really don't talk much, only when we are alone, we talk. I know we are friends, but could we ever be anything more?..
One morning I texted him to tell him that i might not talk to him for a while because something happen the day before, and after i texted him he called me. I know he cares about me. I know we are friends, but anything more? (link)
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Coming from a guy, guys play hard to get. one minute we can be the greatest guys on earth, the next, we can be complete assholes. but every guy is different. if you know that he loves you, then go for it. see if he will go on with a relationship. it beats not asking him and he ends up falling for someone else
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It is my senior year of high school and I am currently in charge of two organizations, our community service club as president and our school newspaper as editor-in-chief. Currently I realize that I am not as assertive as I should be and certain plans are not followed through because of this. I guess its because I have a lack of confidence in myself from past failings as a leader in these activities that I figure that whatever I try to change about myself or about the organizatons will eventually not work out. I really really hate this. Also, I think my club may be suffering a little because of the lack of connection I have with my fellow officers. Although we are able to associate with each other on a I guess, professional basis, there still is that absence of I guess--understanding that would truly help us accomplish bigger and better things... What can I do to become more assertive and a better leader as well as have a better relationship with my fellow staffmembers and editors? Any form of helpful input would be truly appreciated! Thanks in advance =D (link)
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It seems as if you are not devoted to either of them. That problem can be caused by many things spanning from problems outside school to problems in school. I dont mean to put you down but maybe there is something BIGGER going on in your life that you cant focus on these tasks. another problem might be that you are a high based status person in BOTH of these organizations and cant take the pressure. Dont worry about that. it happens to everybody but you realize that as you grow up, you CAN handle more than you actually think you can. Once again, if you are offended, i apologize,but just think about it for a bit.
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I just had my baby boy on the 4th of July.
He was a long awaited arival and I am over joyed that he is here.
Ever since my fiance and I brought him home though, I've felt really sad.
I had a bad pregnancy, but now that it's over, I miss it a lot.
My Fiance just went back to work and now I feel extremely overwhelemd. . . I feel like crying all the time.
My baby sleeps a lot, but since Ross has returned to work he seems to be up more or harder to settle down.
I don't know if any of this is normal or what. . .I could use some advice. (link)
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It is really common... you guys are not used to the whole baby thing so it will take some time to get used to. hang in there. things will get back to normal.
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me and my gurl friend were doin some stuff yesterday, and we felt this wet stuff on her thing. she is on her period and she had a tampon in but we are really worried that she might get pregnant. she normally is on her period for 5-6 days and its the third and she hasnt had anything happen today. we are getting really scared but we didnt have sex! i just put my thing between her legs when we were laying down. please help (link)
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well, you had your "thing" in between her legs... were you touching her vagina with it? there is this thing called pre-cum and it is a fluid like substance that comes with a hard-on. if you had your penis touching her vagina and you were in the process of precumming then the possible chance that she will get pregnant is there. but if she was already on her period, then chances should be slim... I would get a prego test anyway just to be sure.
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heyy.
so..i've got a very confusing problem..
so there's this guy..and at the begining of the year, he told me that he liked me, but i wasent allowed to date him, cause he's older than i am. so..we stayed friends, and we decided to see how this all turned out..well, i started to REALLY like him latley..and i cant tell if he likes me still or not..so im going to explain his behavior, and you see if it seems like he still likes me or not...
okay..so, he still waits for be after 1st hour to talk to me, and he talks to be in between the classes that we see each other. and sometimes he dosent really talk to me, he might just tap me on the shoulder or something, or tap me on the head. and he kinda puts his head down like he's shy. my friends regin and cynthia sometimes watch us while we talk in the mornings. and they said EXACTLY this " the way he look's at you is amazing. he looks you up and down, like he's protective of you. like how edward looks at bella." and then my friend harrison says it looks like he's in love with me. haha. but then sometimes..it seems like he wants nothing more than to get away from me. like he dosent want me to talk to him at all..he'll just walk by me..and sometimes he'll look at me as he walks by.
my friend samantha said that it seems like he likes me..but he dosent know if i like him..so he dosent really want to do anything about it..
but im not sure..what do you think?
thanks for all your help (:
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wat you need to do, and this is coming from a guy, you think he likes you but you cant be too sure, so tell him that you like him and ask him if he feels the same about you. much love...destinys_bro
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